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How to … Kickstart Your Day with Focus & Set a Daily Highlight to Stay on Track

October 14, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

How to ... Kickstart Your Day with Focus & Set a Daily Highlight to Stay on Track Take a few minutes, whether it’s 10 or 30, after rolling out of bed to start your day intentionally. Ground yourself in what you want to achieve. In those moments, practice a little mindfulness—tuning in to your body and mind without rushing to fix anything.

Even a brief check-in with yourself can help you notice what’s going on internally, whether pleasant or unpleasant. Maybe your mind feels foggy or sharp, your body tense or relaxed. Just observe it all without judgment. When you do this, you’re practicing discipline by acknowledging your inner states without reacting. Are you tense? Excited? Your mind is like a clear, still pond, reflecting everything that passes without clinging to it.

This creates a space between you and your thoughts or emotions, allowing you to see them as fleeting sensations rather than who you are. This kind of awareness keeps you focused, without getting derailed by every little feeling that pops up.

Next, choose a “daily highlight”—a single priority for your day. As John Zeratsky and Jake Knapp say in Make Time: How to Focus on What Matters Every Day (2018,) picking one focus gives you clarity, helping you stay true to your intention. It can be urgent, important, or simply something that brings joy.

Idea for Impact: Start your day with a calm, clear mindset, understanding that it’s your choices—not your impulses—that shape your experience. As the day unfolds, take intentional moments to check in with yourself and adjust where needed. This practice of mindful discipline keeps you centered, enabling you to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively to the challenges and distractions of modern life.

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How To … Be More Confident in Your Choices

October 10, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Build Self-Trust: Make Confident Decisions by Setting Healthy Boundaries To feel more comfortable with others disagreeing with you, cultivate a deeper understanding of who you are. This will help you regain trust in yourself and honor your own needs.

Don’t let the fear of people’s opinions (FOPO) hold you back. For informed decision-making, take the time to thoughtfully consider any choices you’re facing. Reflect on how you truly feel, visualize the likely positive and negative outcomes for yourself and others, and pay attention to what feels right. Finally, establish healthy boundaries to protect yourself from external opinions.

Idea for Impact: While it’s important to consider other people’s opinions, don’t let them dictate your own beliefs. Developing self-awareness will empower you to confidently say, “You may not agree with this, but it feels right to me.”

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How to … Combat Those Pesky Distractions That Keep You From Living Fully

October 7, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

How to Combat Those Pesky Distractions That Keep You From Living Fully

Distractions and interruptions have become so ingrained in our lives that we often overlook how difficult it is to maintain focus. Even President Barack Obama acknowledged this challenge, stating, “The hardest thing about the job is staying focused.”

The key to leading a productive and less stressful life lies in your ability to unshackle yourself from pointless commitments and to self-regulate your way out of mental fragmentation. Here’s how to combat mental chaos:

  1. Understand Your Limitations. Recognize what you’re not good at and identify tasks you should avoid. Investors Warren Buffett and Charlie Munger of Berkshire Hathaway have a “too hard pile” for investment ideas they don’t fully understand. By eliminating concepts they lack unique insight into, they streamline their decision-making process.
  2. Declutter Your Space. Marie Kondo, the tidiness expert and author of The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up (2014,) has inspired countless followers to discard anything that no longer brings joy or has outlived its usefulness. A tidy environment, she argues, fosters clearer thinking.
  3. Practice Mental Hygiene. Every item in your “inbox” demands attention, so it’s crucial to manage what you allow in. Clean out your email folder, reduce your to-do list, unsubscribe from unnecessary magazines and newsletters, and limit the flow of new commitments. Be selective about your friendships, too; prioritize quality over quantity.
  4. Eliminate Distractions. Top performers share a common trait: they accept fewer tasks and obsess over executing them well. As American crime fiction author James Ellroy once stated, “I’m interested in doing very few things. I don’t have a cell phone. I don’t have a computer. I don’t have a TV set. I don’t go to movies. I don’t read. I ignore the world so I might live obsessively.” Letting mundane concerns distract you leads to losing focus on your essential tasks.
  5. Examine Time-Wasting Habits. Avoid doing something simply because it’s been a tradition or habit. If you accidentally abandon something important, you can always pick it up again later.
  6. Focus on Your Goals. Your to-do list should reflect your true aspirations, not just a random collection of tasks. Be selective about what you add. Implement my three-step process—time logging, time analysis, and time budgeting—to align your efforts with your mission, values, and desired outcomes.

Idea for Impact: A Mind That’s Everywhere is Nowhere

To tackle that mental chaos, take back control of your attention. Set clear priorities on what you’ll focus on, and work on fewer things but dive into them more intensely. As Alexander Graham Bell, the inventor of the telephone, stated, “Concentrate all your thoughts upon the work at hand. The sun’s rays do not burn until brought to a focus.”

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How to … Get into a Creative Mindset

October 3, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Rangaswamy Srinivasan: Pioneering Advances in Laser Surgery Techniques In 1981, Rangaswamy Srinivasan, a chemist at IBM Research, and his colleagues embarked on a mission to identify an organic substance suitable for testing an ultraviolet excimer laser—an innovative tool capable of etching intricate designs into polymers for computer chips.

On November 27, in a moment of inspiration, Srinivasan brought some leftover Thanksgiving turkey into his laboratory for laser experimentation. After a series of trials and adjustments, he successfully produced clean, precise incisions in the turkey’s cartilage without causing any thermal damage to the surrounding tissue.

This serendipitous discovery of ablative photodecomposition paved the way for LASIK eye surgery, a procedure that requires precise alterations to the cornea’s shape to correct various vision problems. This groundbreaking technique has since transformed the lives of millions, providing a painless solution for myopia, hyperopia, and astigmatism.

Idea for Impact: The more you plunge into exploration and nurture that curious spark, the more you turn curiosity into a regular habit. To up your odds of those delightful “aha!” moments, don’t shy away from a bit of uncertainty and experimentation every now and then. Embrace the art of intelligent floundering—give new ideas a whirl and toss around a few “what if” questions. Frame your thoughts with a touch of experimentation by musing, “What if I tried it this way?” or “Why wouldn’t that work better?” You never know; your next big breakthrough might just be lurking in the leftovers, waiting for you to discover it!

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Curiosity Doesn’t Age, It Grows

September 25, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Curiosity Doesn't Age, It Grows Age and creativity aren’t closely linked. Many assume that youthful energy drives innovation, but experienced folks bring a treasure trove of knowledge and fresh perspectives that can really spark creativity.

Keep pushing yourself, even if you’re not quite where you want to be, and embrace a little uncertainty. It helps you avoid burnout.

Staying creative and curious as you age means staying open-minded and engaged with the world. As we get older, it’s tempting to fall into a routine and let our interests shrink, but keeping a sense of wonder alive is what keeps those creative sparks flying.

Idea for Impact: Stay curious, keep evolving!

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Is Ethics Just About Getting Caught?

September 24, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Is Ethics Just About Getting Caught? A surgeon friend of mine often quips, “If you think you can ‘get away’ with something, you probably shouldn’t be considering it in the first place.”

A reliable rule, no doubt! But rightness or wrongness isn’t as clearcut.

In philosophy, there’s a school of thought called virtue ethics. It suggests that moral behavior comes from cultivating a virtuous character and living in alignment with virtues like honesty, compassion, and courage. If you’re even thinking about deceitful behavior, it’s a sign that your character might need a bit of a tune-up.

On the flip side, while deliberate wrongdoing should never be condoned, sometimes ethics shifts to focus on practical utility. Utilitarianism, another philosophical approach, judges the rightness or wrongness of an action based on its consequences. From this viewpoint, wrongdoing might be seen as justifiable if it leads to a greater good, with the consequent focus on artfully dodging repercussions.

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Curate Wisely: Navigating Book Overload

September 12, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Curate Wisely: Navigating Book Overload Most books are trash—seriously. Most could be condensed into booklets, booklets into essays, essays into articles, articles into paragraphs, and paragraphs into tweets.

To handle the avalanche of books published each year, get picky—grab the ones that really speak to you, match your vibe, and have solid recommendations. Don’t trust those internet best-seller lists; they can be manipulated through “leapfrogging.”

When you crack open a new book, start with the intro. It sets the stage, tells you what to expect, and usually gives examples. Check out the table of contents and scan through a few sample chapters to see if it’s your jam before committing to a full read.

Also, consider old favorites—they stick with you better after a few rounds. Trust me; it takes a few passes to really get those ideas to sink in.

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Let Others Think What They May

September 5, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Let Others Think What They May It’s not entirely up to you to control how others see you. People will think what they want, that’s just how it goes. You just be you. You have nothing to prove.

What’s best for others might not be best for you, and what’s best for you might not be best for others. And that’s okay. We’re not all cut from the same cloth.

While it’s natural to seek validation from others, remember that your worth isn’t tied to their opinions. Instead of constantly trying to fit into other people’s molds or fretting over perception, focus on staying true to who you are.

Idea for Impact: Embrace your true self, flaws, quirks, and all. When you’re comfortable in your own skin, outside validation doesn’t matter as much, and unconstructive criticism rolls off your back.

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Get Started, Passion Comes Later: A Case Study of Chipotle’s Founder, Steve Ells

September 2, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Get Started, Passion Comes Later The notion of directly pursuing your passion can seem daunting, particularly if you’re uncertain about identifying your true calling or how it could translate into a feasible career path. The tale of Chipotle and its founder Steve Ells serves as a fitting illustration of this dilemma.

After graduating from arts college, Ells headed to the Culinary Institute of America, where he fell in love with cooking. Initially, he dreamed of opening a fancy restaurant, but the funds weren’t there.

During the early 1990s, Ells embarked on a culinary journey, starting as a sous chef under renowned chef Jeremiah Towers at San Francisco’s upscale Stars restaurant. It was during this time that the idea for Chipotle began to take shape. Inspired by the delectable “mission-style” burritos he savored in San Francisco’s Mission District taquerias, Ells seized the opportunity. With an $85,000 loan from his father, he ventured to establish the inaugural Chipotle eatery in 1993, nestled in Denver, Colorado.

Ells’s father, crunching the numbers, estimated that his son would need to sell 107 burritos daily to break even. However, the response exceeded expectations. Within the inaugural month, Chipotle was churning out 1,000 burritos a day. This swift success unveiled Ells’s true calling. He realized his passion lay not in haute cuisine but in the realm of delivering delectable, freshly-prepared Mexican fare swiftly. Chipotle garnered a devoted following for its scrumptious offerings, rapid service, and unwavering commitment to sustainable sourcing.

Idea for Impact: Starting with an exploratory approach is often wiser than waiting for the perfect alignment with your passion. Dabble in different areas, adapt your goals over time, and stay open to new opportunities. Sometimes, passion emerges along the journey, leading to unexpected yet fulfilling paths.

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Don’t Keep Running Hard If You’re Not Making Progress

August 22, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Don't Keep Running Hard If You're Not Making Progress - Avoid Working Hard Without Progress Do you really understand how you’re spending your time?

A lot of folks think they’re putting more hours into strategic work than they actually are. Check your calendar from the past month. If you’re anything like the managers I work with, you’ll probably find it’s easier to justify your daily grind than to explain why you’re doing everything you shouldn’t be.

  • Make time audits a habit. Add up the hours you’ve spent on your strategic priorities. Was it enough? Most people end up scrambling with urgent tasks instead of focusing on what really matters.
  • Identify your top three priorities for the year and ensure you’re dedicating enough time to them each week. If you’re falling short, it’s time to cut back on other commitments, delegate more, and clear some space in your schedule for what truly counts.

Idea for Impact: Your time often drifts away from your intentions. Don’t just run hard without making progress. Get your priorities straight. Be disciplined with your time.

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