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Embracing the Inner Demons Without Attachment: The Parable of Milarepa

December 2, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Embracing the Inner Demons Without Attachment: The Parable of Milarepa

The Parable of Milarepa and the Demons, attributed to the 11th-century Tibetan yogi and poet Milarepa (1052–1135,) is a renowned fable from the Tibetan Buddhist tradition. It teaches a powerful lesson about inner transformation and the nature of suffering. Here’s a synopsis:

After returning to his cave from collecting firewood, Milarepa finds it swarming with demons. Initially, he confronts them directly, lecturing them on the Dharma and urging them to leave. However, his efforts prove futile, as the demons remain unresponsive. Realizing that resistance is fruitless, Milarepa adopts a different approach—he embraces the demons, inviting them to coexist with him and even offering himself as sustenance. This radical acceptance causes the demons to vanish, revealing their illusory nature. Through this encounter, Milarepa gains insight into the power of non-resistance and compassion in overcoming inner turmoil.

The parable is rich in symbolism, depicting the demons as manifestations of Milarepa’s negative thoughts, struggles, anxieties, and emotions. His attempts to suppress or fight them only strengthen their hold. However, when he treats them with kindness, he recognizes their true nature as projections of his own mind.

By transforming the demons into allies, Milarepa strips them of their power to torment him, causing them to dissolve into light. This tale illustrates the essence of true liberation in Buddhist philosophy: rooted in acceptance, understanding, and compassion for oneself.

Overall, this fable serves as a powerful metaphor for spiritual growth, demonstrating how we can overcome negativity. True freedom arises from acknowledging reality rather than denying it. Mindfulness fosters non-judgmental awareness, while recognizing suffering’s impermanence reduces attachment.

Idea for Impact: Inner transformation begins within; compassion and self-awareness transmute inner demons, leading to wisdom, peace, and freedom from suffering.

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Filed Under: Living the Good Life, Mental Models Tagged With: Anxiety, Attitudes, Buddhism, Emotions, Mindfulness, Resilience, Suffering, Wisdom

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