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The best and sweetest flowers in paradise, God gives to his people when they are on their knees in the closet.—Prayer, if not the very gate of heaven, is the key to let us into its holiness and joys.
—Thomas Brooks (English Puritan Preacher, Author)

He who leaves nothing to chance will do few things poorly, but he will do few things.
—E. F. L. Wood, 1st Earl of Halifax (British Politician)

Ideas attract money, time, talents, skills, energy and other complementary ideas that will bring them into reality.
—Mark Victor Hansen (American Public Speaker)

Good friendships are fragile things and require as much care as any other fragile and precious thing.
—Randolph Bourne (American Writer)

Very usually, altruism is only the sublimest form of selfishness.
—Sri Aurobindo (Indian Mystic, Philosopher, Poet)

Happiness is itself a kind of gratitude.
—Joseph Wood Krutch (American Writer)

As long as the day lasts, let’s give it all we got.
—David O. McKay (American Religious Leader)

The sad truth is that opportunity doesn’t knock twice. You can put things off until tomorrow but tomorrow may never come. Where will you be a few years down the line. Will it be everything you dreamed of. We seal our fate with the choices we take, but don’t give a second thought to the chances we take.
—Gloria Estefan (Cuban-American Singer, Actress)

Charity degrades those who receive it and hardens those who dispense it.
—George Sand (French Novelist, Dramatist)

First we form habits, then they form us. Conquer your bad habits, or they’ll eventually conquer you.
—Rob Gilbert (American Animator, Cartoonist)

The arrogance of the artist is a very profound thing, and it fortifies you.
—James A. Michener (American Novelist)

More can be learned from what works than from what fails.
—Rene Dubos (French-American Microbiologist)

Any success you have is despite your lack of giving, not because of it.
—Richard Carlson (American Actor)

Why Are There No ‘How to Be a Great Follower’ Classes?

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Why Are There No 'How to Be a Great Follower' Classes? It struck me recently: while we obsess over leadership—how to be a good leader, how to measure it, and so on—there’s barely a peep about being a good follower.

No one seems particularly interested in becoming a good follower. Step into a business school, and the hustle to prove leadership skills is as intense as caffeine consumption!

Think about it: leaders wouldn’t exist without followers. Both roles are vital for any group’s success.

Yet, leadership gets all the glory, while followership is often overlooked. Society praises leaders with power and prestige, while followers are seen as mere support staff. It’s as if followership is considered a less glamorous, passive role.

'The Art of Followership' by Ronald E. Riggio (ISBN 0787996653) So why the lack of buzz about following? Maybe there’s no market for it. But effective followership is just as vital. A bit more focus on it could lead to smoother, more balanced teams. After all, if everyone’s busy leading, who’s left to follow? Good leaders aren’t always out front.

The Career-Altering Question: Generalist or Specialist?

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The Crucial Career Decision: Should You Become a Specialist or a Generalist? Is it better to be a generalist or a specialist at work? You’ll face this choice about six to ten years into your career. Should you broaden your skills or narrow your focus?

Generalists are versatile professionals with moderate experience across various fields. They excel in roles like management and project coordination, allowing them to see the big picture. Their adaptability opens diverse job opportunities and helps build a vast network. In fast-paced environments, generalists are invaluable.

On the other hand, specialists dive deep into a particular area. They acquire expertise that surpasses most others, focusing intensely on their topics. This depth of knowledge earns them recognition and demand. Specialists often enjoy higher salaries and are crucial for organizations requiring specific skills.

'Range Why Generalists Triumph' by David Epstein (ISBN 0735214484) David Epstein’s Range: Why Generalists Triumph in a Specialized World (2019,) argues that generalists thrive long-term due to their broad skill set, which enhances adaptability. Specialists, however, contend that deep knowledge is necessary for driving progress. In a strong workplace, both roles are essential. Generalists rely on specialists, and specialists benefit from generalists. Together, they effectively solve problems.

Ultimately, your choice depends on your career goals. Decide what aligns with your strengths and aspirations. A balanced approach can be effective: start as a generalist, as most do at the beginning, exploring your industry without knowing what you don’t know. This exploration helps identify your interests and strengths. By six to ten years in, refine your focus and zero in on a path that resonates with your passions. After that, specialize in what truly inspires you. However, as you advance in a company, you may need to shift back to generalism, as managing multiple domains often requires this flexibility.

How to Tackle the Biggest Source of Negativity in Your Life

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How to Tackle the Biggest Source of Negativity in Your Life

Often, you are your biggest source of negativity in your life.

You serve as your own fiercest critic, consistently pointing out your imperfections and shortcomings with sharp precision.

While a balanced dose of self-critique can be constructive, incessantly putting yourself down is self-defeating. This cycle of self-doubt, negative self-talk, and harsh inner dialogue fuels feelings of inadequacy and despair.

Negative self-talk can quickly become a damaging habit. Your internal narratives shape your emotions and behaviors, influencing how you respond to external situations. This internal negativity skews your perception, leading you to focus on failures instead of celebrating your successes. Consequently, it harms your relationships and overall well-being, hindering your ability to live a fulfilling life. Self-criticism diminishes your self-worth and erodes your peace of mind, making it hard to move forward.

There’s no magic solution for overcoming this negativity. Like any bad habit, it requires making small, deliberate choices that gradually become easier. By recognizing your power to change your mindset, you can break free from self-imposed limitations and cultivate a more positive outlook.

Idea for Impact: The most important conversation you have is the one in your head. Instead of consistently putting yourself down, concentrate on lifting yourself up. Replace that negative voice with positive affirmations. Make lists of what you love about yourself, acknowledge your achievements—no matter how small—and reward yourself when you reach a goal.

When you make mistakes, aim to view the situation objectively, without letting emotions cloud your judgment. Rather than fixating on your errors and criticizing yourself, identify what went wrong and consider how to improve next time.

Practicing self-compassion can also buffer against future disappointments; extend yourself the same grace you would offer a best friend. Self-validation bolsters your acknowledgment of your capabilities and skills, helping you build a healthier, more positive relationship with yourself.

How to … Identify your Strengths

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How to ... Identify your Strengths Identifying your strengths involves some self-reflection, feedback, and a bit of exploration:

  • Tune into the buzz. Ask colleagues, friends, and family when they’ve seen you at your best. Don’t shy away from your toughest critics; their feedback often highlights how your skills truly shine.
  • Spot what feels effortless. What tasks come naturally to you while others struggle? Reflect on the skills you use to tackle challenges with ease.
  • Track what makes time fly and energizes you. What activities have you so engrossed that you lose track of time? Which roles or tasks make you feel alive and engaged? If you’re in school, think about the subjects you ace.

By piecing together these clues, you’ll uncover your core strengths and turn them into your secret weapons for success.

Champion Positives, Sideline Negatives

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Warren Buffett's Advice: Champion Positives, Sideline Negatives Investor Warren Buffett’s wisdom isn’t just about making money. He’s known for his simple yet powerful life advice, often told through folksy metaphors. One of his biggest teachings is about investing in yourself and striving to be the best you can be. Buffett advocates surrounding yourself with top-notch people and learning from them: he famously remarked, “It’s better to hang out with people better than you. Pick out associates whose behavior is better than yours and you’ll drift in that direction.”

It’s all about picking up their good habits and making them your own. Buffett has offered a practical approach: create two lists of qualities. First, write down what you love about your role models. Then, jot down the stuff you can’t stand about those you don’t vibe with. Then, aim to adopt the good and steer clear of the bad.

Idea for Impact: Be more like the people you admire the most. This exercise can help you level up and become the best version of yourself.

The Likeability Factor: Whose “Do Not Pair” List Includes You?

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Southwest Airlines Employs Southwest Airlines employs an “Avoidance Bid System,” similar to the “Do Not Pair” systems found at other airlines. This system allows first officers to select up to three captains they prefer not to fly with when scheduling their monthly rosters. The process is straightforward; it involves entering the captain’s employee number without the need to provide a reason for the preference.

If Southwest’s crew scheduling system pairs a first officer with one of their “avoided” captains, the first officer will be reassigned to a different trip. Notably, captains do not have the same privilege to designate first officers they prefer not to fly with.

The Avoidance Bid System gained significant attention after the Southwest Airlines Flight 345 incident in July 2013. This incident involved a Boeing 737-700 aircraft experiencing a nose gear collapse during a hard landing at New York’s LaGuardia Airport. Despite receiving warnings from the first officer to abort the landing, the captain ignored the alerts. Subsequent investigations uncovered that the captain had received numerous grievances from many first officers she had flown with before; in fact, she was on many first officers’ “Do Not Pair” lists.

In professions such as aviation, which depend heavily on standardization and routine procedures, the impact of workplace likability is intriguing to ponder. When management overlooks individuals who struggle to collaborate and adhere to standard procedures, it poses a considerable risk to safe operations. Errant behavior, particularly from those in positions of power, can disrupt team dynamics, sow tension among colleagues, and weaken the efficacy of established protocols.

Idea for Impact: Ever stop and think if your coworkers would slap your name on their “Do Not Pair” list if our company had a system like that? Maybe your skills, experience, or even just your attitude could land you there. Likability is the glue that fortifies professional relationships and unlocks pathways to opportunities.

The Problem with Hiring Smart People

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Smart people are puzzled by initial resistance and slow uptake Hiring smart individuals indeed adds valuable intellectual capital to organizations, but it also brings about unique challenges. The struggle emerges as these individuals try to grasp why their brilliant ideas face initial resistance and why others don’t catch on as quickly.

Smart individuals become frustrated when dealing with skeptics among their colleagues, having to invest precious time in aligning the team without coming off as bossy—especially when collaborating with peers over whom they lack direct authority. The aggravation intensifies as they would prefer to generate more genius ideas than get caught up in the challenge of convincing others about concepts that seem like a no-brainer to them.

Idea for Impact: Smart folks, don’t overlook relationship-building skills; intelligence isn’t everything for your goals.

Fostering Growth & Development: Embrace Coachable Moments

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Fostering Growth & Development: Embrace Coachable Moments To make coaching a dynamic part of your workplace culture, encourage managers to seamlessly weave coaching and feedback into their daily interactions with employees. This not only saves time by preventing avoidable issues but also propels employee growth.

Coaching opportunities often spring up when there are unexpected twists or triumphant moments. Managers should invest time observing team members in action, whether they’re in the field or on the phone, engaging with customers and prospects. This observation uncovers hidden insights and provides an impartial view. It’s a tricky task for individuals to self-diagnose while deeply immersed in their tasks.

In addition to these impromptu coaching moments, managers can schedule coaching sessions to create a safe space for individuals to explore their thoughts and challenges. This fosters self-awareness, precise self-evaluation, and enhanced problem-solving skills.

To identify coachable moments with staff, managers should consider questions like, “Is this situation urgent?,” “Could it offer valuable learning?,” “Is the individual receptive to this conversation right now?,” and “Am I available for this discussion?”

Moreover, celebrating achievements, no matter their size, provides an exciting opportunity for coaching to strengthen the behaviors that led to success.

Emotional Intelligence Is Overrated: The Problem With Measuring Concepts Such as Emotion and Intelligence

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In the contemporary landscape, relying solely on cognitive intelligence tests to evaluate the managerial potential of MBA students is increasingly considered inadequate. It has become fashionable for successful managers to need emotional intelligence to thrive in their roles.

Within human resources, there is a growing trend to define an individual’s ability to understand emotional expressions as a form of “intelligence,” measuring it through an emotional quotient (EQ) and considering it a personality trait. However, it is worth noting that people often find it refreshing to shed the façade they present in public and freely express their genuine thoughts, emotions, and actions in informal “off-the-record” situations rather than conforming to formalities during official meetings.

While some proponents argue that EQ encompasses all dimensions of managerial success that IQ fails to measure, this widely accepted viewpoint lacks credible scientific evidence. Unlike IQ, a clearly defined measure of cognitive abilities, there is no agreed-upon definition of emotional intelligence, and various EQ tests produce vastly different results. Moreover, societal biases and cultural upbringing can significantly influence EQ scores. Indeed, the claim that EQ is twice as vital as IQ is an entirely baseless and unproven assertion.

Emotional intelligence is an intricate and dynamic concept encompassing a broad spectrum of emotional competencies, social skills, and self-awareness. Attempting to simplify it into a single score may not adequately capture its subtleties and complexities.