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Self-Criticism Is Self-Sabotage

November 16, 2023 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

'The Happiness Track' by Emma Seppala (ISBN 0062344013) According to Emma Seppälä, a researcher from Stanford and Yale, the tendency to excessively dwell on negative outcomes and the subsequent self-criticism can erode our self-worth, leading to self-doubt and unhappiness.

In her book The Happiness Track (2016,) Seppälä advocates for self-compassion, emphasizing the importance of treating oneself with the same understanding, mindfulness, and kindness that one would extend to a friend. This shift in mindset can lead to significantly increased resilience, productivity, and overall well-being.

Self-Criticism Is Self-Sabotage Seppälä recommends a practice of expressive writing. When dealing with intense emotions, try writing a letter to yourself as if you were addressing a friend. While this might initially feel unusual, this self-compassionate approach can help put your feelings into perspective rather than magnifying them. Expressive writing offers an opportunity for meaningful change by confronting your realities, reframing your experiences, and identifying any obstacles hindering your pursuit of purpose, joy, and contentment.

Idea for Impact: By replacing self-doubt and harsh self-judgment with self-compassion and positive self-talk, you’ll empower yourself to thrive. This transformative shift opens the doors to personal growth, stronger relationships, and a more resilient mindset.

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Filed Under: Health and Well-being, Living the Good Life, Sharpening Your Skills Tagged With: Adversity, Anxiety, Conversations, Emotions, Introspection, Resilience, Suffering

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