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This ‘Morning Pages’ Practice is a Rebellion Against the Tyranny of Muddled Thinking

November 12, 2025 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Morning Pages Practice is a Rebellion Against the Tyranny of Muddled Thinking

Julia Cameron’s ‘Morning Pages’ ritual, introduced in her bestselling handbook on the creative life, The Artist’s Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity (1992,) has become a widely embraced method for nurturing mental clarity and creative flow. The idea’s simple yet profound. Each morning, you write three pages longhand in a stream-of-consciousness style. No filters. No expectations. Just an honest outpouring of whatever’s on your mind.

Morning Pages doesn’t require any special skill or background. Just a pen, some paper, and the willingness to meet yourself on the page. The goal isn’t to craft brilliance. It’s to make space for clarity by sweeping out mental clutter. That’s why the practice’s so effective. It reliably helps to center you before the noise of the day creeps in.

Over time, the pages begin to reveal patterns: recurring worries, creative blocks, unresolved questions. These are the kinds of things that might otherwise stay hidden. This daily ritual becomes a quiet mirror, reflecting back what needs attention. The practice can be incredibly grounding, especially on days when thoughts feel tangled or unsettled.

'The Artist Way Higher' by Julia Cameron (ISBN 1585421472) The value of Morning Pages lies less in what you write and more in the act of showing up. You don’t need to be profound. Rambling counts. Lists count. Complaints count. Even writing “I have nothing to say” counts. Strangely, some of the best surprises surface later, often not during writing but afterward: while walking the dog or washing dishes, a knot quietly unravels.

Some days, the resistance is loud, and the pages feel pointless. Those are the days they’re needed most. As Cameron reminds, writing through resistance is part of the process. Even if all you do is scribble frustrations, the practice can be trusted. Over time, it’ll offer far more than it’s asked.

Idea for Impact: Morning Pages create a rare space for unfiltered honesty. Clarity doesn’t arrive like a lightning strike. It comes from showing up. One page at a time. Three pages before breakfast can prevent an entire day spent lost in mental fog.

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Negative Emotions Aren’t the Problem—Our Flight from Them Is

September 29, 2025 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Negative Emotions Aren't the Problem---Our Flight from Them Is Life is not a cradle of comfort but a crucible of experience. To be conscious is to be vulnerable—to injury, to loss, to the slow erosion of certainty. Suffering is not a glitch in the system; it is the system. And yet, the modern mind, coddled by convenience and narcotized by distraction, recoils from this fact as if it were an indecency rather than a reality.

We are told to “stay positive,” to “move on,” to “let it go”—as if grief were a clerical error and despair a lapse in etiquette. But this is not wisdom; it is evasion. The mature individual does not anesthetize himself against pain. He studies it. He lets it speak. He asks, as the Buddha might have: What is the origin of this suffering? What craving, what illusion, what attachment lies beneath it?

Negative emotions—anger, shame, sorrow—are not pollutants to be scrubbed from the psyche. They are signals. To suppress them is to silence the very messengers that might deliver us from ignorance. The Buddhist insight that suffering arises from clinging—from our refusal to accept impermanence—aligns, curiously, with the stoic’s call to meet adversity with composure and clarity.

There is no virtue in masochism, no nobility in wallowing. But there is immense value in refusing to be ruled by what afflicts us. To suffer consciously is to wrest meaning from pain. To observe one’s anguish without flinching is to begin the slow, unsentimental work of liberation.

Idea for Impact: You will not escape the wheel of suffering. Avoiding negative emotions won’t get you anywhere—it merely postpones the reckoning and deepens the illusion. In doing so, you do not become immune to suffering—but you cease to be its slave.

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Let a Dice Decide: Random Choices Might Be Smarter Than You Think

September 10, 2025 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Let a Dice Decide: Random Choices Might Be Smarter Than You Think We make thousands of decisions daily—what to wear, which email to answer first, whether to take the scenic route or stick to the main road. Most are low-stakes, but the act of choosing can sap mental energy. That’s decision fatigue: as options pile up, clarity frays, and even the inconsequential starts to feel weighty. The mind treats small choices like they’ve got far more significance than they deserve.

There’s a surprisingly elegant way out: hand off minor decisions to chance. Roll a die. Flip a coin. Outsource the trivial. Randomization cuts through indecision and delivers instant clarity. Ironically, when the coin’s in mid-air, we often discover what we truly want—hoping silently for a particular side to land face-up. That fleeting instinct speaks louder than hours of deliberation.

We already allow randomness to shape more of our lives than we realize. We hit shuffle and trust an algorithm to pick our next song. We choose checkout lines blindly, hoping they’re fastest. Our social feeds present content in curated chaos. Even picking a restaurant often comes down to whatever looks inviting in the moment. Randomness isn’t an interruption—it’s ambient, constant, and influential.

Using chance deliberately brings relief. Faced with mundane, energy-draining decisions, inviting a bit of randomness can be playful and effective. It breaks the loop of paralysis-by-analysis and forces commitment. It frees up brainpower for choices that actually require reflection. Not everything deserves a full internal debate.

Of course, not every decision fits this mold—career shifts, relationships, financial moves need real thought. But for the daily swarm of indecision, randomness offers clarity and release.

That’s freedom from the unimportant.

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Therapeutic Overreach: Diagnosing Ordinary Struggles as Disorders

August 29, 2025 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

'Bad Therapy' by Abigail Shrier (ISBN 0593542924) Bad Therapy: Why the Kids Aren’t Growing Up (2024), Abigail Shrier argues that the pendulum of psychological intervention has swung far past its intended arc. What began as a tool for healing has become a cultural reflex—where discomfort is mistaken for disorder, and ordinary childhood struggles are pathologized into syndromes.

Shrier contends that modern psychology, once grounded in clinical rigor, now saturates everyday life. Emotional excavation—driven by talk therapy and social-emotional curricula—has become compulsive. Children are taught to monitor their moods like vital signs, retreating from friction rather than developing resilience. The result: a generation conditioned to flinch at adversity, dependent on emotional scaffolding, and primed to interpret setbacks as trauma.

Her prescription is a corrective swing back toward equilibrium. Therapy, she argues, should be reserved for genuine psychological disorders—not deployed as a universal rite of passage. Children must be allowed to stumble, struggle, and recover without constant intervention. Problem-solving, not introspection, should be the default. Critics rightly note that therapy has its place—especially for depression, anxiety, and ADHD—but its overuse risks diluting its power and purpose.

The call is not to abandon care, but to recalibrate it. Emotional literacy, taught judiciously, can complement experience—but it cannot substitute for it. Families and schools must resist the urge to diagnose every dip in mood or moment of distress. Instead, they should model steadiness, grit, and the understanding that discomfort is not pathology.

Balance, not backlash, is the goal. The pendulum must return to center—where therapy is a tool, not a crutch; where emotion is acknowledged, not medicalized; and where children grow not by avoiding pain, but by learning to endure it.

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Busyness is a Lack of Priorities

August 22, 2025 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Busyness is a Lack of Priorities You’re not stuck in busyness—you’re choosing it. That packed calendar, the blur of back-to-back tasks, the sense that your time isn’t your own? They’re symptoms of decisions made without reflection, not obligations imposed by others.

Urgency has a way of deceiving you. It makes everything feel critical, even when most of it isn’t. Reacting to every alert keeps you in survival mode. Choosing what genuinely matters restores control.

You don’t owe your time to every request or expectation. Drop the performative hustle. Ditch the tasks that look productive but do nothing. You’re not a bystander—you steer your schedule.

When overwhelm creeps in, pause. Step back. Reconsider what’s actually worth your attention. Busyness isn’t a badge of honor—it’s just the default when you stop choosing intentionally.

Idea for Impact: Busyness is a choice. Prioritize what matters. Accomplish what you want, not what you think you have to.

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The Benefits of Having Nothing to Do

August 18, 2025 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

The Benefits of Having Nothing to Do These days, the moment boredom creeps in, we lunge for a distraction—scrolling, streaming, swiping. It’s less a decision than a reflex, like we’re allergic to silence.

But what if those “boring” moments were exactly what we need to hit pause and reconnect with ourselves? Those empty spaces might hold the key to clarity, focus, and self-reflection.

Boredom, though uncomfortable, creates space for reflection to flourish. In those quiet, unoccupied moments, we’re forced to face our thoughts. Embracing boredom has become a lost art, and in its absence, we’ve lost the skills needed for thoughtful living—reflection, focus, and intentionality. Sometimes, doing nothing is exactly what we need to live more consciously and fully.

Idea for Impact: The next time boredom strikes, resist the urge to reach for your phone. Sit with it. Pause. Ask yourself, “Am I living with purpose, or just going through the motions?” You might uncover something unexpected.

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Feeling Is the Enemy of Thinking—Sometimes

August 15, 2025 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Responsive vs. Reactive Behavior: Feeling is the Enemy of Thinking A thing can feel bad and be right.

Or it can feel good and be wrong.

It’s a quiet distinction—easily missed, but central to personal wisdom.

It’s tempting to let emotion guide your ethical compass. But how something feels isn’t always a trustworthy measure of what’s right.

Feelings are powerful—but not infallible.

To live thoughtfully is to ask: “Does this feel right, or is it truly right?”

That question opens the door to deeper discernment, separating impulse from principle, gratification from growth.

The ability to think beyond emotional distortion is a cornerstone of wisdom. It asks you to look past immediacy and self-interest, and to judge your actions by consequence, ethics, and truth. That clarity builds a life shaped by integrity, not impulse.

Feelings are persuasive. They echo survival, not morality.

They are weather, not climate.

To live wisely is to respect their presence—and step beyond their sway.

Idea for Impact: Growth begins where reaction ends.

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Jeju Air Flight 2216—The Alleged Failure to Think Clearly Under Fire

July 28, 2025 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

How Situational Blindness Caused the American Airlines-Black Hawk Fatal Collision Near Reagan National Airport Yet another preliminary report from a fatal airline accident leaves crucial details unresolved and continues to fuel debate—echoing the intense scrutiny surrounding the Air India 171 crash.

In December 2024, Jeju Air Flight 2216 crash-landed at South Korea’s Muan International Airport. The Boeing 737–800 aircraft touched down without deploying its landing gear, overshot the runway at high speed, and struck a concrete structure supporting the Instrument Landing System (ILS) localizer beacon. The resulting fire claimed 179 of the 181 lives on board, marking South Korea’s deadliest aviation disaster in recent decades.

A leaked version of the initial findings indicates that both engines were hit by birds during final approach. The right engine suffered extensive damage, emitting flames and thick black smoke, while the left engine maintained sufficient thrust. Despite this, the flight crew allegedly shut down the left engine. No mechanical faults were found in the aircraft or its engines. Investigators also noted a critical data gap: both the cockpit voice recorder (CVR) and flight data recorder (FDR) ceased functioning approximately four minutes before impact, leaving key questions about the crew’s decision-making unanswered. The preliminary report avoids definitive conclusions regarding crew actions, citing limitations in scope.

Aviation experts have expressed frustration over the absence of conclusive evidence about the crew’s decisions—particularly given the missing CVR and FDR data. Shutting down a functioning engine dramatically limits aircraft control and reduces the chance of executing a go-around or controlled landing. The report has also drawn criticism for downplaying airport infrastructure flaws. The structure the aircraft collided with was made of non-frangible material—contrary to international safety standards, which recommend breakaway designs to mitigate impact severity. If it emerges that the emergency landing was skillfully executed, the aircraft might have skidded further and come to a natural stop. A final, more comprehensive report is expected next summer.

If early findings are confirmed—especially the shutdown of the less-damaged engine—this accident may serve as another tragic example of cognitive overload under intense stress. Pilots in high-pressure situations can experience “narrowing of the cognitive map,” a phenomenon where tunnel vision compromises situational awareness and hinders sound decision-making. Inattentional blindness may also cause individuals to miss vital environmental cues—a pattern I’ve observed in numerous other aviation incidents covered on this blog.

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Seven Ways to Let Go of Regret

May 26, 2025 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Ways to Let Go of Regret: Let go, learn, adapt, forgive, focus forward, embrace growth, reclaim joy. Regret is a backward-looking emotion. It’s an evaluation of past choices—regret arises from the discrepancy between what was and what could have been. Letting go of it is tough because it’s tangled with self-reproach, the dread of lost potential, and the discomfort of admitting errors, trapping us in “what ifs.”

  1. Leave the past behind—regret traps you there. Dwelling on what could’ve been drains the joy from today.
  2. Stop magnifying mistakes. Overanalyzing makes them seem bigger than they are.
  3. Forgive yourself. Forgiving yourself demands more effort than forgiving others, but it shapes your ability to move forward.
  4. Choose self-acceptance over self-pity. Mistakes don’t define you.
  5. Take control of your inner dialogue. Replace negativity with empowering truths.
  6. Extract lessons from every experience—growth comes from reflection.
  7. Tackle regrets head-on. Awareness and action are the only ways to move forward.

Idea for Impact: Dwelling on mistakes gets you nowhere. When life knocks you down, take a moment to process the setback—then move forward. The ability to rebound quickly from failures and disappointments is one of the key differentiators between successful and unsuccessful people.

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A Thief’s Trial by Fire

May 15, 2025 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

The Burglar's Son: A Zen Parable of Trial and Fire There’s a purported Zen parable that goes like this: A seasoned thief brings his son to a wealthy man’s house in the dead of night. They sneak inside, and the father carefully guides the son through the process—finding valuables, avoiding noise, and staying hidden. At one point, while the son is inside a room, the father suddenly slams the door shut and locks him in, then loudly raises the alarm before disappearing into the shadows.

Terrified and trapped, the son panics. But soon, his instincts kick in. He uses his wits, making a small noise to lure the household cat closer, then throws an object to startle it. The sudden movement and noise wake the household, creating confusion. Amid the chaos, the son seizes the moment, picks the lock, and escapes unseen.

Later, when he meets his father, exhausted and shaken, he asks why he was abandoned. The father laughs and says, “I wanted to test your mettle, son. Tonight, you learned the true essence of thievery—thinking on your feet.”

Idea for Impact: Adversity can be a powerful catalyst for resourcefulness. It’s a hard lesson, but one learned through real experience, not just instruction.

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