There’s a purported Zen parable that goes like this: A seasoned thief brings his son to a wealthy man’s house in the dead of night. They sneak inside, and the father carefully guides the son through the process—finding valuables, avoiding noise, and staying hidden. At one point, while the son is inside a room, the father suddenly slams the door shut and locks him in, then loudly raises the alarm before disappearing into the shadows.
Terrified and trapped, the son panics. But soon, his instincts kick in. He uses his wits, making a small noise to lure the household cat closer, then throws an object to startle it. The sudden movement and noise wake the household, creating confusion. Amid the chaos, the son seizes the moment, picks the lock, and escapes unseen.
Later, when he meets his father, exhausted and shaken, he asks why he was abandoned. The father laughs and says, “I wanted to test your mettle, son. Tonight, you learned the true essence of thievery—thinking on your feet.”
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