
During conversations, letting moments of silence linger can be incredibly impactful.
A quiet pause signals that you’re really tuned in, not just to the other’s words, but to all the feelings and subtleties behind them.
It gives others the chance to gather their thoughts, find the right words, or just mull over what they’ve said.
Give the speaker the time and space they need to fully express themselves.
Especially when someone’s opening up about something personal or emotional, silence creates a safe space for them to to lay it all out there.
Get comfortable with silence.
A lull in a conversation can make you uncomfortable. Embrace that discomfort.
An interlude can tempt you to fill it with chatter. Hold back a bit.
You may even get the inclination to “one-up” them by sharing your own past experiences and solutions. Don’t diminish what they’re going through.
Be fully present in the moment.
Make ’em feel like they’re being heard, like their thoughts and feelings matter.
Embrace the quiet. It shows respect for their vulnerability and allows them to experience and explore their emotions without interruptions or judgment.
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