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Fixing Isn’t Always the Quick Fix: Keep Your Solutions to Yourself

March 26, 2025 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Stop Solving, Start Asking: Guiding Teams Through Questions, Not Answers When team members come to you with problems, resist the urge to jump straight into “fix-it” mode. It’s a common reflex, but it can actually backfire.

Quick fixes give the impression that they should rely on you rather than work through the issues themselves. This not only stifles their growth but also means you’ll be fielding more of these help requests.

Instead, take a step back and ask guiding questions. Encourage them to think through their own solutions. You might say, “That’s a great question. What ideas do you have?” Listen closely. A little nudge is often all it takes for them to land on the solution you’d suggest anyway, but this way, they’re more invested.

If their ideas miss the mark, ask, “What else could you try?” Use your experience to broaden their thinking and gently guide them toward a solution.

Idea for Impact: Guide team members to think through their own solutions by asking questions, rather than offering quick fixes, to foster growth and independence.

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Why Are There No ‘How to Be a Great Follower’ Classes?

February 24, 2025 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Why Are There No 'How to Be a Great Follower' Classes? It struck me recently: while we obsess over leadership—how to be a good leader, how to measure it, and so on—there’s barely a peep about being a good follower.

No one seems particularly interested in becoming a good follower. Step into a business school, and the hustle to prove leadership skills is as intense as caffeine consumption!

Think about it: leaders wouldn’t exist without followers. Both roles are vital for any group’s success.

Yet, leadership gets all the glory, while followership is often overlooked. Society praises leaders with power and prestige, while followers are seen as mere support staff. It’s as if followership is considered a less glamorous, passive role.

'The Art of Followership' by Ronald E. Riggio (ISBN 0787996653) So why the lack of buzz about following? Maybe there’s no market for it. But effective followership is just as vital. A bit more focus on it could lead to smoother, more balanced teams. After all, if everyone’s busy leading, who’s left to follow? Good leaders aren’t always out front.

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Increase Paranoia When Things Are Going Well

February 20, 2025 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Increase Paranoia When Things Are Going Well The makers and operators of the RMS Titanic were so confident in their shipbuilding that its Captain, Edward Smith, one of the world’s most experienced sea captains at the time, had famously declared a few years earlier about another company ship, the RMS Adriatic, “I cannot imagine any condition which would cause a ship to founder. I cannot conceive of any vital disaster happening to this vessel. Modern shipbuilding has gone beyond that.” Well, we all know how the Titanic’s maiden voyage turned out.

Success can sometimes blind us to potential disasters. The Titanic carried 2,207 people but had only enough lifeboats for 1,178. This oversight stemmed from outdated maritime safety regulations that based lifeboat requirements on ship tonnage rather than passenger numbers.

When you’re riding high—whether it’s launching hit products, enjoying a surge of clients, or watching your bank account swell—it’s easy to imagine nothing could go wrong. But disaster can strike faster than you can say “iceberg.” Markets can shift, demand can evaporate, and cash flow can dry up.

Wise people know that fortunes are fickle. They question success more than failure, asking more when things are going well than when they’re struggling. They anticipate problems by asking, “What do I want, and what could get in the way?”

Idea for Impact: Success should sharpen your awareness. See paranoia not as irrational fear but as vigilance. Even in prosperity, maintain a nagging sense of potential danger. Stay alert, anticipate challenges, and adapt swiftly. Never let complacency set in, even in the best of times.

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The Business of Popular Causes

January 22, 2025 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Starbucks:Championing Progressive Causes, While Undermining Unionization Efforts Starbucks has long been celebrated for its progressive image and support of social justice causes. But when it comes to unionization and better benefits, the company’s actions tell a different story. Internal policies—like cracking down on union activities—raise doubts about how committed it truly is to the values it champions.

Starbucks is a prime example of a wider trend: companies quickly embrace progressive causes, but only when they don’t hurt the bottom line. This is Bandwagon Branding—when businesses latch onto the latest popular cause, whether it’s social justice, climate change, or equality, to align with dominant public values. They roll out hashtags, social media campaigns, and limited-edition products to show support. But once the spotlight fades, they quietly move on to the next issue. Remember when founder-CEO Howard Schultz launched the “Race Together” initiative, letting baristas at 12,000 locations write it on cups to spark conversations about race?

This cycle—big gestures, minimal change, quick pivots—reveals a harsh truth: corporations are profit-driven. Their true loyalty is to shareholders, not social causes. Corporate virtue-signaling often rings hollow.

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Not Every Customer is a Right Fit for You—and That’s Okay

December 19, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Not Every Customer is a Right Fit for You---and That's Okay In business, every sale may feel like a win, but some sales can actually harm you more than help.

In Delivering Happiness: A Path to Profits, Passion, and Purpose (2010; my summary,) Zappos CEO Tony Hsieh illustrates the importance of parting ways with problematic customers. He recounts how, when it was a fledgling startup, Zappos identified a customer who exploited their generous return policy, ordering thousands of dollars in shoes only to return them frequently. Acknowledging the strain this put on their business and customer service team, Zappos chose to cut ties, issuing a full refund and politely refusing further business. This decision allowed them to maintain their high standards for customers who genuinely valued their service.

Not all money is good money. Certain clients can negatively impact your well-being—and your bottom line.

Filter out the wrong customers. Cut loose those who don’t fit. Over time, you’ll become adept at spotting clients you’ll regret accepting. Some customers simply aren’t worth your time and energy. Sometimes, it’s more cost-effective to refund their money and send them packing. Other times, it’s wise to discourage potential clients from buying in the first place. You might find yourself confidently saying, “Sorry, this just isn’t for you. Please don’t send any money my way.” It may seem a bit blunt, but it’s liberating. The payoff? You’ll build a fantastic group of clients who bring genuine joy to your work, significantly reducing negative stress for you, your team, and everyone involved.

Idea for Impact: Good business sometimes means letting go. Life’s too short to waste on the wrong customers. Filtering out those who aren’t a fit isn’t just smart; it’s vital for creating a fulfilling, enjoyable career. Work with those who inspire you.

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Heartfelt Leadership at United Airlines and a Journey Through Adversity: Summary of Oscar Munoz’s Memoir, ‘Turnaround Time’

December 16, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Leadership is a delicate balancing act where success and failure can hinge on perception. When a company thrives, traits like optimism and active listening are celebrated as visionary, and leaders who engage with their teams are hailed as collaborative, inclusive, and forward-thinking. But when things go wrong, those same qualities come under attack—optimism’s dismissed as naivety, and “listening” gets criticized as indecisiveness or an overreliance on consensus. Ultimately, results shape the narrative, transforming managerial traits into strengths or weaknesses based on the outcome.

'Turnaround Time' by Oscar Munoz (ISBN 0063284286) Oscar Munoz, former CEO of United Airlines, waited more than four years after handing the reins to Scott Kirby before publishing his business memoir, Turnaround Time: Uniting an Airline and Its Employees in the Friendly Skies (2023.) With United now performing well despite the harsh challenges it faced over the past five years—such as the COVID-19 pandemic, operational disruptions, Boeing’s issues, and various supply chain problems—Munoz’s retrospective lens casts his “people-first leadership” in a favorable light.

At United, Munoz was more of a caretaker CEO than an industry visionary. He was elevated from the board to CEO following his predecessor’s scandal-driven resignation, with his main charge being to find a competent successor with deep industry experience. He succeeded spectacularly by recruiting Scott Kirby after Kirby was abruptly dismissed from American Airlines in 2016. When Munoz handed over the CEO role to Kirby just before Christmas 2019, on the eve of the COVID pandemic, analysts believed Munoz’s legacy would largely rest on hiring Kirby and his rocky initial response to the David Dao incident, followed by a dramatic course correction. To his credit, Munoz used the Dao debacle as a turning point, overseeing an acceleration in significant changes to United’s operations and employee culture.

However, Turnaround Time, which emphasizes the “human aspect of leadership,” lacks the tactical depth expected from a CEO memoir. It’s filled with anecdotes about “listening to employees” rather than providing detailed business strategies or a comprehensive portrayal of the complexities of running a major airline during a challenging time for the industry, with countless variables and uncontrollable factors shaping outcomes.

A key moment in the book recounts Munoz’s seemingly insightful interaction with a flight attendant named Amy Sue, who tearfully told him, “I’m just tired of always having to say, ‘I’m sorry.'” Her words underscored the burden frontline employees face—apologizing for service flaws and management decisions beyond their control. This encounter, claims Munoz, crystallized his leadership mission: to empower employees by aligning resources and support with their professional pride. United’s morale had been battered by financial struggles following 9/11, bankruptcy, and a slow-moving “merger” with Continental Airlines. Change was overdue, and Munoz’s employee-first approach aimed to revive a dispirited workforce.

Leadership Lessons from United Airlines' CEO, Oscar Munoz Yet, one can’t help but ask: Why hadn’t Munoz engaged with employees during his decade on the board of United’s parent company (and another five years at the acquiring company, Continental Airlines)? Wise board members often gain an unfiltered understanding of company culture by connecting with employees directly rather than relying on polished C-suite reports, which can skew the board’s perceptions of the organization’s internal climate.

The real strength of Munoz’s memoir lies in his personal story, which brings a human depth to the book. Just 38 days into his CEO role, Munoz was hospitalized with coronary artery disease and underwent emergency heart surgery, followed by a heart transplant two months later. In Munoz’s telling, this harrowing experience reshaped his approach to leadership, infusing it with compassion and an awareness of the personal struggles many employees likely faced. With Kirby and the rest of the leadership team handling the daily operations and improvements of the airline, Munoz focused on creating a supportive company culture. Frontline employees I’ve interacted with often describe Munoz as personable and genuinely interested in their well-being and professional satisfaction.

Munoz’s heart transplant and recovery add emotional resonance to what might’ve been a typical corporate memoir. Turnaround Time highlights the emotional and psychological resilience that underpinned his leadership at United, showing how his personal journey mirrored his professional one. It’s a fast, engaging read worth picking up for the human story behind the corporate challenges.

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Lessons from Tito’s Leadership of Yugoslavia

November 18, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Lessons from Tito's Leadership of Yugoslavia This year, I took two long trips across the Balkans, focusing on the region’s turbulent 20th-century history.

Understanding the role of Yugoslav revolutionary leader Josip Broz Tito has been instrumental in grasping the complex ethnic relations, historical grievances, and aspirations that continue to shape the region’s identity and politics.

Tito’s regime demonstrates how a coercive leader can unite a fragmented people through sheer willpower. However, it also highlights how the absence of sustainable systems and institutions can lead to collapse once that leader is gone, as evidenced by the violent conflicts of the 1990s. Encyclopædia Britannica encapsulates on Tito’s legacy thus:

The irony of Tito’s remarkable life is that he created the conditions for the eventual destruction of his lifelong effort. Instead of allowing the process of democratization to establish its own limits, he constantly upset the work of reformers while failing to satisfy their adversaries. He created a federal state, yet he constantly fretted over the pitfalls of decentralization. He knew that the Serbs, Croats, Slovenes, and others could not be integrated within some new supranation, nor would they willingly accept the hegemony of any of their number; yet his supranational Yugoslavism frequently smacked of unitarism. He promoted self-management but never gave up on the party’s monopoly of power. He permitted broad freedoms in science, art, and culture that were unheard of in the Soviet bloc, but he kept excoriating the West. He preached peaceful coexistence but built an army that, in 1991, delivered the coup de grâce to the dying Yugoslav state. At his death, the state treasury was empty and political opportunists unchecked. He died too late for constructive change, too early to prevent chaos.

Tito was a charismatic and strong leader whose personal authority and presence were key to maintaining national cohesion. His doctrine of “Brotherhood and Unity” aimed to bridge Yugoslavia’s deep ethnic and national divides. However, the political institutions he left behind were weak and overly reliant on his personal authority, creating a power vacuum that no one could fill after his death in 1980.

The poem “Comrade Tito, from your path we will not stray!” written at the time of his death, was soon forgotten. It instead underscored the instability of the region’s political landscape and the futility of suppressing deep-seated ethnic and nationalist divisions through authoritarian rule. The federal structure Tito had established began to unravel, leading to violent conflicts.

Idea for Impact: Many leaders are skilled at rallying people around a common vision, instilling purpose and urgency. However, this often creates a dependency on the leader’s presence, making the system vulnerable to collapse once they are gone.

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Lee Kuan Yew on the Traits of Good Political Leaders

November 14, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

'The Wit and Wisdom of Lee Kuan Yew' by Lee Kuan Yew (ISBN 9789814385282) Leaders are assessed through a nuanced blend of factors, primarily focusing on the long-term effects of their decisions. Their effectiveness is judged by the quality of their policy outcomes, the individuals they’ve mentored, and the culture they’ve cultivated. Naturally, these evaluations are subjective and can vary depending on personal perspectives, values, and historical contexts.

When Lee Kuan Yew began his eighth and final term as Singapore’s Prime Minister in 1988, he announced it would be his last, outlining his plans for the next two years before passing leadership to Goh Chok Tong. Lee also highlighted the significance of exit strategies and smooth transitions in evaluating political leaders. Watch a segment from his speech delivered on September 13, 1988.

Political leaders are judged first by how effectively they have exercised their authority in the interests of their people. Second, by the way in which they have provided for continuity so that a successor government will continue to protect and advance the interests of their people. Third, by the grace with which they leave office and hand over to their successors.

Lee Kuan Yew was a remarkable leader who, through visionary governance, turned Singapore from a struggling backwater into one of the world’s most affluent nations. Though he faced criticism for his strong-handed approach, his leadership will continue to be acclaimed for its vision, pragmatism, and enduring impact.

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The Double-Edged Sword of a Strong Organizational Culture

September 9, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

The Double-Edged Sword of a Strong Organizational Culture Peter Drucker’s famous phrase, “culture eats strategy for breakfast,” underscores the vital importance of nurturing internal cultures within organizations. A robust organizational culture possesses a powerful influence, shaping the work environment, molding employees’ mindsets, and ultimately determining the organization’s overall success. The pursuit of cultivating workplace cultures has led to a plethora of models and methodologies, propagated by business schools and leadership consultants.

However, the enthusiasm for strong cultures as a cure-all for leadership challenges should be balanced with an understanding of the complexities they introduce.

While strong cultures offer undeniable advantages, they can unintentionally encourage groupthink, stifling diversity of thought and hindering adaptability to changing circumstances. Dissenting voices and alternative values may be marginalized or even excluded, all in the name of maintaining cultural consistency and safeguarding cultural alignment. This can create substantial pressure for individuals to conform.

Idea for Impact: Well-established cultures often resist change and deviations from established norms, sometimes regarding non-conformists as threats to the existing order. Strike a delicate balance between cultural cohesion and a deliberate focus on diversity and inclusion.

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Do We Have Too Many Middle Managers?

August 29, 2024 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Do We Have Too Many Middle Managers?

In Power to the Middle: Why Managers Hold the Keys to the Future of Work, HR Consultant Bill Schaninger, et al. argue that middle managers are essential to the evolving world of work.

What middle managers do is actually much more complex than what either executives or frontline workers do: They manage both up and down, and serve as translators in both directions. What kind of qualities and skills does the job require? Emotional intelligence, resilience, adaptability, technical skills, critical thinking, communication skills, being open to change, seeing the big picture, and managing both full-time and contract/gig workers. Everything they do deeply affects the work, the workforce, and the workplace.

True.

But many organizations are weighed down by too many middle managers. These layers of bureaucracy slow decisions and stifle innovation.

Why not cut the clutter? In today’s flat organizational structures, where employees are empowered to make decisions and manage projects independently, the need for numerous middle managers diminishes. Trim the fat.

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