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Inspirational Quotations #976

December 18, 2022 By Nagesh Belludi

Our hearts grow tender with childhood memories and love of kindred, and we are better throughout the year for having, in spirit, become a child again at Christmastime.
—Laura Ingalls Wilder (American Author of Children’s Novels)

That is the best—to laugh with someone because you think the same things are funny.
—Gloria Vanderbilt (American Artist, Socialite)

We must never confuse elegance with snobbery.
—Yves Saint Laurent (French Designer)

Strictly speaking, there is but one real evil: I mean acute pain. All other complaints are so considerably diminished by time that it is plain the grief is owing to our passion, since the sensation of it vanishes when that is over.
—Lady Mary Wortley Montagu (English Aristocrat, Poet)

God made death so we’d know when to stop.
—Steve Stiles (American Cartoonist)

You can’t get rid of poverty by giving people money.
—P. J. O’Rourke (American Journalist)

The moral principles and precepts contained in the Scripture ought to form the basis of all our civil constitutions and laws.
—Noah Webster (American Lexicographer)

If I could say it in words there would be no reason to paint.
—Edward Hopper (American Painter)

There is no greater calling than to serve your fellow men. There is no greater contribution than to help the weak. There is no greater satisfaction than to have done it well.
—Walter Reuther (American Labor Leader)

Acting is the least mysterious of all crafts. Whenever we want something from somebody or when we want to hide something or pretend, we’re acting. Most people do it all day long.
—Marlon Brando (American Actor)

Women do not find it difficult nowadays to behave like men, but they often find it extremely difficult to behave like gentlemen.
—Compton Mackenzie (English Writer)

Social problems can no longer be solved by class warfare any more than international problems can be solved by wars between nations. Warfare is negative and will sooner or later lead to destruction, while good will and cooperation are positive and supply the only safe basis for building a better future.
—Fridtjof Nansen (Norwegian Arctic Explorer)

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Goal-Setting for Managers: Set Tough but Achievable Challenges

December 15, 2022 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Finding the middle ground between setting the bar too low and too high can challenge managers.

Sure, aggressive goals can spark great accomplishments, but they also can induce employees to bend or break the rules in pursuit of those goals, as the Wells Fargo and Volkswagen scandals illustrate.

When employees get comfortable with their usual tasks, it’s time to push them outside their comfort zones. New responsibilities can propel employees to take on new challenges and learn new things.

However, before giving employees new tasks, take away some of the older responsibilities they’ve already mastered. Many people feel they have an unrealistic amount of work to do already. If you aren’t prudent enough to keep your employees’ workloads in check, giving “stretch” assignments can lead to burnout, not growth.

Idea for Impact: Goals that are too high or low can be demotivating. Set goals that are challenging and inspiring but with extra effort, realistically attainable.

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Filed Under: Leading Teams, Managing People Tagged With: Coaching, Employee Development, Goals, Motivation, Performance Management

Be Smart by Not Being Stupid

December 12, 2022 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

No superhuman ability is usually required to dodge the many foolish choices to which we’re prone. A few basic rules are all that’s needed to shield you, if not from all errors, from silly errors.

Charlie Munger often emphasizes that minimizing mistakes may be one of the least appreciated tricks in successful investing. He has reputedly credited much of Berkshire Hathaway’s success to consistently avoiding stupidity. “It is remarkable how much long-term advantage we have gotten by trying to be consistently not stupid instead of trying to be very intelligent.” And, “I think part of the popularity of Berkshire Hathaway is that we look like people who have found a trick. It’s not brilliance. It’s just avoiding stupidity.” They’ve avoided investing in situations they don’t understand or summon experience.

As a policy, avoiding stupidity in investing shouldn’t mean avoiding risk wholly; instead, it’s taking on risk only when there’s a fair chance that you’ll be adequately rewarded for assuming that risk.

Idea for Impact: Tune out stupidity. Becoming successful in life isn’t always about what you do but what you don’t do. In other words, improving decision quality is often more about decreasing your chances of failure than increasing your chances of success.

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Inspirational Quotations #975

December 11, 2022 By Nagesh Belludi

The search is what anyone would undertake if he were not sunk in the everydayness of his own life. To become aware of the possibility of the search is to be onto something. Not to be onto something is to be in despair.
—Walker Percy (American Novelist)

All great ones have undergone suffering. None can escape what is ordained.
—Yogaswami of Jaffna (Sri Lankan Hindu Religious Leader)

All great work is preparing yourself for the accident to happen.
—Sidney Lumet (American Filmmaker)

Keep the other person’s well-being in mind when you feel an attack of soul-purging truth coming on.
—Betty White (American Comedian)

People start parades—politicians just get out in front and act like they’re leading.
—Buck Rinehart (American Politician)

One had better die fighting against injustice than die like a dog or a rat in a trap.
—Ida B. Wells (American Journalist, Activist)

In spite of all the refinements of civilization that conspired to make art – the dizzying perfection of the string quartet or the sprawling grandeur of Fragonard
—Anne Rice (American Author)

All genuine progress results from finding new facts. No law can be passed to make an acre yield three hundred bushels. God has already established the laws. It is four us to discover them, and to learn the facts by which we can obey them.
—Wheeler McMillen (American Farmer, Journalist)

Oh, the secret life of man and woman—dreaming how much better we would be than we are if we were somebody else or even ourselves, and feeling that our estate has been unexploited to its fullest.
—Zelda Fitzgerald (American Writer, Artist)

All of us who served in one war or another know very well that all wars are the glory and the agony of the young.
—Gerald Ford (American Head of State)

Frugality is one of the most beautiful and joyful words in the English language, and yet one that we are culturally cut off from understanding and enjoying. The consumption society has made us feel that happiness lies in having things, and has failed to teach us the happiness of not having things.
—Elise M. Boulding (American Peace Scholar)

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The Creativity of the Unfinished

December 8, 2022 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Don’t dot every I and cross every T. Leave a stone unturned.

Ignore a rule. Don’t tie up every loose end.

Leave some questions unanswered. Let something be out of place.

Violate the expectation and usher a realm of potentiality. As the American artist Julia Cameron noted in her seminal self-help book The Artist’s Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity (1992,) “Art needs time to incubate, to sprawl a little, to be ungainly and misshapen and finally emerge as itself. The ego hates this fact. The ego wants instant gratification and the addictive hit of an acknowledged win.”

A piece of art, a movie, a melodic line, or a production all tend to be more captivating when they leave you wondering—when they urge you to explore the possibilities your mind has to offer.

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Inspirational Quotations #974

December 4, 2022 By Nagesh Belludi

If you treat every situation as a life and death matter, you’ll die a lot of times.
—Dean Smith (American Basketball Coach)

The danger of censorship in cultural media increases in proportion to the degree to which one approaches the winning of a mass audience.
—James T. Farrell (American Novelist)

Fear is only an illusion. It is the illusion that creates the feeling of separateness—the false sense of isolation that exists only in your imagination.
—Jeraldine Saunders (American Writer, Television Personality)

God is a verb, not a noun.
—Buckminster Fuller (American Inventor, Philosopher)

Since each person, as an individual, is the not-being of the other, it is never possible to eliminate non-understanding completely.
—Friedrich Schleiermacher (German Theologian)

No longer can we be satisfied with a life where the heart has its reasons which reason cannot know. Our hearts must know the world of reason, and reason must be guided by an informed heart.
—Bruno Bettelheim (Austrian-born Psychoanalyst)

Sorrows cannot all be explained away in a life truly lived, grief and loss accumulate like possessions.
—Stefan Kanfer (American Journalist, Author)

What is, is; and what ain’t, ain’t
—Joseph Granville (American Investor)

Most true happiness comes from one’s inner life, from the disposition of the mind and soul. Admittedly, a good inner life is difficult to achieve, especially in these trying times. It takes reflection and contemplation and self-discipline.
—William L. Shirer (American Author)

If there is one thing which a comparative study of religions places in the clearest light, it is the inevitable decay to which every religion is exposed. It may seem almost like a truism, that no religion can continue to be what it was during the lifetime of its founder and its first apostles.
—Max Muller (German-British Orientalist)

I think there is a choice possible to us at any moment, as long as we live. But there is no sacrifice. There is a choice, and the rest falls away. Second choice does not exist. Beware of those who talk about sacrifice.
—Muriel Rukeyser (American Poet)

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‘Tis the Most Wonderful Time of the Year … to Job-Search

December 1, 2022 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

The holidays are around the corner, and this is an excellent time to job-search, especially since most jobs come from networking and referrals.

As you spread the holiday cheer, use greetings as a pretext to catch up with friends, reach out to LinkedIn contacts, and network with people in your industry. Take the opportunity of Christmas and New Year parties to socialize with new people that can help you.

Some workplaces have use-it-or-lose-it money and headcount in the current year’s financial plan that they’d like to commit before year’s end. Other workplaces that have the upcoming year’s plans approved may be eager to jumpstart hiring.

The holiday spirit and the season of giving make hiring managers even more likely to treat you favorably. Moreover, with work winding down for the holiday season, decision-makers are less likely to be in long meetings and business trips, and, therefore, more likely to be at their desks to be contacted.

And you’ll face less competition since few people bother with job-searching at this time of the year.

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Are Layoffs Your Best Strategy Now?

November 28, 2022 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

We’re in a demand slump; if you think downsizing will cut costs and shore up the bottom line, consider the unexpected consequences of layoffs.

Hefty severance pay, outplacement services, and other direct costs can add up quickly, and indirect costs can be substantial. E.g., losing experienced employees can precipitate lasting damage to your business. The direct costs can wipe out any short-term financial benefit if new hard-to-find employees are to be hired and trained within six to twelve months when the downtrend stops.

Then there’s the trap of believing that things will get better soon and downsizing the smallest number of people in anticipation of a quick turnaround. And when that expected miracle doesn’t materialize, you’ll wind up making successive cuts. That’s awful for the morale of the employees spared. The best employees won’t feel indebted to soldier on and may start casting around for new offers, terrified that they will be among the next to be cut.

Idea for Impact: Layoffs may not be the best strategy for grappling with hard times. Examine not just the cost of labor but also the value created by labor. Consider the trade-offs and try furloughs, pay cuts, job sharing, and scaled-down hours instead, depending on when you foresee business rebounding. You’ll spread the pain of the downturn more broadly, keep talented employees, earn loyalty, and better position your company for recovery.

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Inspirational Quotations #973

November 27, 2022 By Nagesh Belludi

The essential ingredient in politics is timing.
—Pierre Trudeau (Canadian Statesman)

I think innocence is something that adults project upon children that’s not really there.
—Donna Tartt (American Novelist)

An orator without judgment is a horse without a bridle.
—Theophrastus (Greek Philosopher)

Authority without wisdom is like a heavy axe without an edge, fitter to bruise than polish.
—Anne Bradstreet (American Poet)

I think isolation is one of the greatest problems, an ever-growing obstacle to political solidarity.
—Elfriede Jelinek (Austrian Author)

Seek not to follow in the footsteps of men of old; seek what they sought.
—Matsuo Basho (Japanese Poet)

If one benefits tangibly from the exploitation of others who are weak, is one morally implicated in their predicament? Or are basic rights of human existence confined to the civilized societies that are wealthy enough to afford them? Our values are defined by what we will tolerate when it is done to others.
—William Greider (American Journalist)

Good men prefer to be accountable.
—Michael Edwardes (British Business Executive)

It is at night that faith in light is admirable.
—Edmond Rostand (French Dramatist)

It is necessary to relax your muscles when you can. Relaxing your brain is fatal.
—Stirling Moss (English Motor-Racing Driver)

Freedom, morality, and the human dignity of the individual consists precisely in this; that he does good not because he is forced to do so, but because he freely conceives it, wants it, and loves it.
—Mikhail Bakunin (Russian Anarchist)

Pray to God, at the beginning of all thy works, that so thou mayest bring them all to a good ending.
—Xenophon (Ancient Greek Philosopher)

When you put your hand to the plow, you can’t put it down until you get to the end of the row.
—Alice Paul (American Suffragist)

You can either grow old gracefully or begrudgingly. I chose both.
—Roger Moore (English Actor)

Gardening is the art that uses flowers and plants as paint, and the soil and sky as canvas.
—Elizabeth Murray (American Artist)

Beginnings are apt to be shadowy and so it is the beginnings of the great mother life, the sea.
—Rachel Carson (American Biologist)

Filed Under: Inspirational Quotations

No Need to Send a Thank-you Card for a Thank-you Card

November 24, 2022 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

As a rule of thumb, feel free to send a thank-you note whenever the impulse strikes you. But a thank-you card (or a thank-you gift) sent to you is already a token of appreciation, so putting in yet more effort into thanking somebody for thanking you is purposeless, irritating even. It’s kind of morally superfluous.

Now, failing to acknowledge a thank-you note is a universal annoyance. By all means, you can text them, “Got your note. I’m glad you had a good time,” or inform them the next time you run into them in the hallway. However, no need to perpetuate a recursion of thank-you notes.

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