Inspirational Quotations #480

The future doesn’t belong to the fainthearted, it belongs to the brave.
* Ronald Reagan

I can’t help detesting my relations. I suppose it comes from the fact that none of us can stand other people having the same faults as ourselves.
* Oscar Wilde

The chief reason for going to school is to get the impression fixed for life that there is a book side for everything.
* Robert Frost

I always like to look on the optimistic side of life, but I am realistic enough to know that life is a complex matter.
* Walt Disney

The audience is the best judge of anything. They cannot be lied to. Truth brings them closer. A moment that lags – they’re gonna cough.
* Barbra Streisand

All search is vain, until we begin to perceive that wisdom is within ourselves … then we may know the sun is rising, that the morning is breaking for us.
* Swami Vivekananda

When a stupid man is doing something he is ashamed of, he always declares that it is his duty.
* George Bernard Shaw

Be eager to acquire knowledge; it does not come to thee by inheritance.
* The Talmud

Dogma does not mean the absence of thought, but the end of thought.
* G. K. Chesterton

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Inspirational Quotations #479

To be angry is to revenge the faults of others on ourselves.
* Alexander Pope

Giving advice makes the recipient feel less efficacious, so weigh that against the benefit your advice will likely yield.
* Marty Nemko

Surrounded by people who love life, you love it too; surrounded by people who don’t, you don’t.
* Mignon McLaughlin

One may understand the cosmos, but never the ego; the self is more distant than any star.
* G. K. Chesterton

Look not mournfully into the Past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the Present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy Future, without fear, and with a manly heart.
* Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

In union, there is strength.
* Aesop

There’s something just as inevitable as death. And that’s life.
* Charlie Chaplin

When I get a little money, I buy books; and if any is left, I buy food and clothes.
* Desiderius Erasmus

I believe that a scientist looking at nonscientific problems is just as dumb as the next guy — and when he talks about a nonscientific matter, he will sound as naive as anyone untrained in the matter.
* Richard Feynman

The madman thinks the rest of the world crazy.
* Publilius Syrus

If you want to become the kind of person that any company would kill to have as an employee, you need to be the kind of employee that’s really picky about who you align with.
* Seth Godin

Apologies only account for that which they do not alter.
* Benjamin Disraeli

Apologies only account for the evil which they cannot alter.
* Benjamin Franklin

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Inspirational Quotations #478

To cement a new friendship, especially between foreigners or persons of a different social world, a spark with which both were secretly charged must fly from person to person, and cut across the accidents of place and time.
* George Santayana

Measure what is measurable, and make measurable what is not so.
* Galileo Galilei

If you wish to keep as well as possible, the less you think about your health the better.
* Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.

It is not enough to have a good mind. The main thing is to use it well.
* Rene Descartes

Far more of life’s pleasures are in the process than in the outcome. Be in the moment.
* Marty Nemko

As you inquire into issues and turn judgments around, you come to see that every perceived problem appearing “out there” is really nothing more than a misperception within your own thinking.
* Byron Katie

Conversation enriches the understanding, but solitude is the school of genius.
* Edward Gibbon

Poetry is not a turning loose of emotion, but an escape from emotion; it is not the expression of personality but an escape from personality. But, of course, only those we have personality and emotion know what it means to want to escape from these things.
* T. S. Eliot

Set peace of mind as your highest goal and organize your entire life around it.
* Brian Tracy

I wanted to indulge and explore my love of humanity and especially my concern for persons less fortunate than myself.
* Arthur Ashe

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What I’ve been reading: “Man’s Search for Meaning” (+ Book Summary)

Man's Search for Meaning » Austrian psychiatrist Victor Frankl In “Man’s Search for Meaning,” Austrian psychiatrist Victor Frankl makes the case that the primary motivation in one’s life is neither pleasure (as proposed by Sigmund Freud) nor power (as proposed by Alfred Adler), but meaning and purpose.

Victor Frankl is the pioneer of “logotherapy,” a psychotherapy system that carries out an existential examination of a person and consequently helps him/her discover purpose and meaning in his/her life.

Principal ideas from “Man’s Search for Meaning”:

  • Based on his experience as an inmate at many Nazi concentration camps during the Second World War, Victor Frankl observed that those who survived the longest in the Nazi concentration camps were not those who were physically strong, but were those who maintained a sense of control over their environment by finding meaning in their existence and their torments.
  • Even in the toughest of circumstances, life can be given a meaning, and so too can suffering. A person can learn how to cope with suffering and move ahead with a renewed sense of purpose and meaning.
  • Meaning in life can be discovered by taking responsibility and through “right conduct” by,
    • Contributing meaningfully to the world through self-expression and resourcefulness,
    • Experiencing the world by connecting meaningfully with others and with our environment, and
    • Probing our attitudes and changing our approach meaningfully when we face situations that we have little control over.
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Inspirational Quotations #477

Leadership is the art of accomplishing more than the science of management says is possible.
* Colin Powell

Only some work in which the greatest powers of the mind are displayed, in which the most thorough knowledge of human nature, the happiest delineation of its varieties, the liveliest effusions of wit and humour, are conveyed to the world in the best-chosen language.
* Jane Austen

They say the world has become too complex for simple answers. They are wrong. There are no easy answers, but there are simple answers. We must have the courage to do what we know is morally right.
* Ronald Reagan

Those who bring sunshine into the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves.
* J. M. Barrie

As selfishness and complaint pervert and cloud the mind, so love with its joy clears and sharpens the vision.
* Helen Keller

For of all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these: “It might have been!”
* John Greenleaf Whittier

A good compromise, a good piece of legislation, is like a good sentence; or a good piece of music. Everybody can recognize it. They say, “Huh. It works. It makes sense.”
* Barack Obama

Our imagination is stretched to the utmost, not, as in fiction, to imagine things which are not really there, but just to comprehend those things which are there.
* Richard Feynman

Remember, hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies.
* Stephen King

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51 Practical Lessons for a Lifetime

Practical Lessons for a Lifetime

One of my coaching clients recently turned 51 and, upon my encouragement, prepared a list of lessons he’d learned in the “school of hard knocks.” With his permission, I present below a distillation of his wisdom.

  1. Measure twice, cut once
  2. Learn to see the extraordinary in the ordinary.
  3. Life is not about finding yourself, it’s about creating yourself.
  4. The best vengeance is living life well.
  5. Don’t smoke. Don’t abuse alcohol. Don’t do drugs.
  6. Love your country and fellowman.
  7. Don’t let misfortune steal your dreams.
  8. Things could always be worse.
  9. Don’t be afraid to fail. Keep in mind that mistakes are stepping stones to triumph.
  10. Don’t worry. Everything eventually works out.
  11. Don’t be resentful. Don’t take anything personally.
  12. You can always get more money, but you can’t get more time.
  13. Ask not for an easy life. Ask for the vigor to endure a difficult one and persevere.
  14. If you risk nothing, you risk even more.
  15. Never underestimate yourself or take your abilities too lightly.
  16. Don’t take things that aren’t yours.
  17. Never say die. Never say never.
  18. Don’t worry about what people think, they don’t do it very often.
  19. Live within your means.
  20. Give people the benefit of doubt.
  21. Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth
  22. Clean up your own mess.
  23. Develop a healthy cynicism.
  24. If everyone says you’re out of your mind, you just might be onto something.
  25. If you have extra, give.
  26. With sorrow comes the opportunity for growth.
  27. Don’t let time pass. Grab hold of it and make your mark.
  28. Don’t overestimate or overstate your ability to influence.
  29. There’s nothing wrong with being mediocre in something as long as you become an expert at something else.
  30. If you don’t have anything nice to say about someone, don’t say it at all.
  31. You are not that good, they are not that bad.
  32. Hold your head high and look the world straight in the eye.
  33. Be as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are of your own.
  34. Believe in yourself
  35. Have a good time. All of the time.
  36. Believe that everybody has the power to change the world.
  37. Do something that they don’t expect you to do.
  38. Friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on.
  39. Don’t be reckless with other people’s emotions.
  40. Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults.
  41. Speak the truth in love.
  42. Learn something new every day.
  43. Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. Find it.
  44. Never underrate the power of accessibility.
  45. Acknowledge those who have helped you.
  46. Sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind.
  47. Pardon your enemies, don’t forget their names.
  48. Just start. Just take that first step and get started.
  49. Don’t expect of others what you don’t demand of yourself
  50. Don’t expect anyone else to support you.
  51. Friends may come and go, but enemies accumulate.
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Inspirational Quotations #476

Cultivate only the habits that you are willing should master you.
* Elbert Hubbard

Happiness is the only sanction of life; where happiness fails, existence remains a mad and lamentable experiment.
* George Santayana

For they conquer who believe they can.
* Virgil

If you begin by sacrificing yourself to those you love, you will end by hating those to whom you have sacrificed yourself.
* George Bernard Shaw

We have, in fact, two kinds of morality side by side; one which we preach but do not practice and another which we practice but seldom preach.
* Bertrand A. Russell

Do not be too moral. You may cheat yourself out of much life. So aim above morality. Be not simply good; be good for something.
* Henry David Thoreau

A radical is a man with both feet firmly planted — in the air. A conservative is a man with two perfectly good legs who, however, has never learned to walk forward. A reactionary is a somnambulist walking backwards. A liberal is a man who uses his legs and his hands at the behest — at the command — of his head.
* Franklin D. Roosevelt

One must be something, in order to do something.
* Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

One must be something, in order to do something.
* Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

It all comes down to this: if your subconscious “financial blueprint” is not “set’ for success, nothing you learn, nothing you know, and nothing you do will make much of a difference.
* T. Harv Eker

Think of the poorest person you have ever seen and ask if your next act will be of any use to him.
* Mohandas K. Gandhi

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The only thing that matters: The Relevant Results

New York City Taxicab

In New York city, a taxi driver and a priest die on the same day and knock on Heaven’s door. Saint Peter receives them and shows the taxi driver and the priest around. The taxi driver’s home for eternity is a lavish new castle equipped with fancy gadgets and butlers. The priest’s new home is a meager hut with neither electricity nor water. The priest complains to St. Peter: “It’s I not him who dedicated all life to faith. I sacrificed much in life, worked hard, and delivered thousands of sermons to the faithful in New York. All I get is a mere hut when this taxi driver gets a castle?” St. Peter responds: “Yes, but when you did you work—when you preached—people slept. When the taxi driver worked—when he drove people around New York,—people prayed hard.”

Your strategies, vision and mission statements, business plans, purposes, determination, ambitions, intents, ideas, resolutions, goals, hard work, sleepless nights—none of these matter if you don’t deliver the results that are relevant to your customers and your stakeholders.

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Inspirational Quotations #475

Are you more likely to feel regret because of an action you take or because of inaction (something you do *not* do)?
* Ben Casnocha

The whole world yearns after freedom, yet each creature is in love with his chains; this is the first paradox and inextricable knot of our nature.
* Sri Aurobindo

We must, indeed, all hang together or, most assuredly, we shall all hang separately.
* Benjamin Franklin

The first essential, of course, is to know what you want.
* Robert Collier

Avoid this dangerous mix of personal (grasping), spiritual and selfless love. Most of the time it ends in frustration.
* Hans Taeger

We are never so ridiculous from the habits we have as from those that we affect to have.
* Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Kindness arises by standing apart from oneself and recognizing all beings as companions on the arduous travel towards highest perfection.
* Hans Taeger

Some men are born to own, and can animate all their possessions. Others cannot: their owning is not graceful; seems to be a compromise of their character: they seem to steal their own dividends.
* Ralph Waldo Emerson

The thirst after happiness is never extinguished in the heart of a man.
* Jean-Jacques Rousseau

Let us leave it to the reviewers to abuse such effusions of fancy at their leisure, and over every new novel to talk in threadbare strains of the trash with which the press now groans. Let us not desert one another; we are an injured body.
* Jane Austen

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What I’ve been reading: “Fooled by Randomness” (+ Book Summary)

Fooled by Randomness: The Hidden Role of Chance in Life and in the Markets » Lebanese American essayist Nassim Nicholas Taleb In “Fooled by Randomness: The Hidden Role of Chance in Life and in the Markets,” Lebanese American essayist Nassim Nicholas Taleb discusses cognitive biases and irrationalities that drive human behavior and decision-making. Principal ideas:

  • Luck, chance, and randomness play a larger role in the happenings of the world than most people acknowledge.
  • People tend to justify random outcomes as non-random and rationalize chance outcomes as results of deliberate actions.
  • Correlation does not translate to causation.
  • People tend to assume patterns in their analysis even when such patterns do not exist.
  • Variations in performance and ability can cause disproportionate rewards, difficulties, punishments, or returns.
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