Right Attitudes

I can feel guilty about the past, apprehensive about the future, but only in the present can I act. The ability to be in the present moment is a major component of mental wellness.
—Abraham Maslow (American Psychologist)

A fanatic is one who can’t change his mind and won’t change the subject.
—Winston Churchill (British Head of State)

All times are beautiful for those who maintain joy within them; but there is no happy or favorable time for those with disconsolate or orphaned souls.
—Rosalia de Castro

There are four questions of value in life… What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made? What is worth living for, and what is worth dying for? The answer to each is the same. Only love.
—Don Juan DeMarco

The weaknesses of the many make the leader possible.
—Elbert Hubbard (American Writer)

How would you act differently if you knew you already had everything you need within you? Who or what would you stop chasing?
—Mastin Kipp

Intent is not a thought, or an object, or a wish. Intent is what can make a man succeed when his thoughts tell him that he is defeated. It operates in spite of the warrior’s indulgence. Intent is what makes him invulnerable. Intent is what sends a shaman through a wall, through space, to infinity.
—Carlos Castaneda (Peruvian-born American Anthropologist)

Self-destruction is the effect of cowardice in the highest extreme.
—Daniel Defoe (English Writer)

Boldness is ever blind, for it sees not dangers and inconveniences; whence it is bad in council though good in execution.—The right use of the bold, therefore, is, that they never command in chief, but serve as seconds under the direction of others.—For in council it is good to see dangers, and in execution not to see them unless they be very great.
—Francis Bacon (English Philosopher)

You can make up a quarrel, but it will always show where it was patched.
—E. W. Howe (American Novelist)

The way a man wins shows most of his character,|The way he loses shows all of it.
—Unknown

The reputation of a thousand years may be determined by the conduct of one hour.
—Japanese Proverb

The fishing is best where the fewest go, and the collective insecurity of the world makes it easy for people to hit home runs while everyone else is aiming for base hits. There is just less competition for bigger goals.
—Tim Ferriss

Charisma becomes the undoing of leaders. It makes them inflexible, convinced of their own infallibility, unable to change.
—Peter Drucker (Austrian-born Management Consultant)

A multitude of small delights constitute happiness.
—Charles Baudelaire (French Poet)

It is more easy to be wise for others than for ourselves.
—Francois de La Rochefoucauld

It’s been said that knowing something doesn’t make a difference. But taking what you know and doing something with it makes all the difference.
—Steve Goodier

Progress is the activity of today and the assurance of tomorrow.
—Ralph Waldo Emerson (American Philosopher)

A new wound makes all the old ones ache again.
—Mignon McLaughlin (American Journalist)

To know when to go away and when to come closer is the key to any lasting relationship.
—Domenico Cieri (Mexican Writer)

One difference between savagery and civilization is a little courtesy. There’s no telling what a lot of courtesy would do.
—Cullen Hightower (American Humorist)

As long as we are persistence in our pursuit of our deepest destiny, we will continue to grow. We cannot choose the day or time when we will fully bloom. It happens in its own time.
—Denis Waitley (American Motivational Speaker)

Triumph often is nearest when defeat seems inescapable.
—B. C. Forbes (Scottish-born American Journalist)

Whatever is hateful to thee, do not to thy neighbor.
—The Talmud (Sacred Text of the Jewish Faith)

A great obstacle to happiness is to expect too much happiness.
—Bernard le Bovier de Fontenelle (French Essayist)

The great and glorious masterpiece of man is to know how to live to purpose; all other things, to reign, to lay up treasure, to build, are at the most but mere appendixes and little props.
—Michel de Montaigne (French Philosopher)

Nothing so cements and holds together all the parts of a society as faith or credit, which can never be kept up unless men are under some force or necessity of honestly paying what they owe to one another.
—Cicero (Roman Philosopher)

I absolutely believe that people, unless coached, never reach their maximum capabilities.
—Robert Nardelli

Money is a terrible master but an excellent servant.
—P. T. Barnum (American Businessperson)

If you want to know what you think of yourself, then ask yourself what you think of others and you will find the answer.
—Unknown

Much may be done in those little shreds and patches of time which every day produces, and which most men throw away.
—Charles Caleb Colton (English Angelic Priest)

To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that the one that must be loved is not a friend.
—Mohandas K. Gandhi (Indian Hindu Political leader)

An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind.
—Buddhist Teaching

Sin has many tools, but a lie is the handle which fits them all.
—Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr. (American Physician)

Awareness requires a rupture with the world we take for granted; then old categories of experience are called into question and revised.
—Shoshana Zuboff

A man who has committed a mistake and doesn’t correct it is committing another mistake.
—Confucius (Chinese Philosopher)

Prayer is communion with God, usually comprising petition, adoration, praise, confession, and thanksgiving.
—The Holy Bible (Scripture in the Christian Faith)

Never does the human soul appear so strong as when it forgoes revenge, and dares forgive an injury.
—Edwin Hubbell Chapin (American Universalist Preacher)

Believe nothing of what you hear, and only half of what you see.
—Common Proverb

I look at what I have not and think myself unhappy; others look at what I have and think me happy.
—Philibert Joseph Roux (French Surgeon)

There are few things in life that bring as much joy as the joy that comes from assisting another improve his or her life.
—Richard G. Scott (American Mormon Religious Leader)

Once you get rid of the idea that you must please other people before you please yourself, and you begin to follow your own instincts—only then can you be successful. You become more satisfied, and when you are other people tend to be satisfied by what you do.
—Raquel Welch (American Actor)

Behind every advance of the human race is a germ of creation growing in the mind of some lone individual. An individual whose dreams waken him in the night while others lie contentedly asleep.
—Crawford Greenewalt (American Engineer)

Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver.
—Barbara De Angelis (American Lecturer)

The man who saves time by galloping loses it by missing his way; the shepherd who hurries his flock to get them home spends the night on the mountain looking for the lost; economy does not consist in haste, but in certainty.
—Ramsay MacDonald (British Head of State)

Thought creates character.
—Annie Besant (British-born Indian Theosophist)

Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible – it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could.
—Barbara De Angelis (American Lecturer)

Reasoning draws a conclusion and makes us grant the conclusion, but does not make the conclusion certain, nor does it remove doubt.
—Roger Bacon (English Philosopher)

Now intelligence seemed quantifiable. You could measure someone’s actual or potential height, and now, it seemed, you could also measure someone’s actual or potential intelligence. We had one dimension of mental ability along which we could array everyone… The whole concept has to be challenged; in fact, it has to be replaced.
—Howard Gardner (American Psychologist)

Do not fight the darkness, let the light in and the darkness will disappear.
—Maharishi Mahesh Yogi (Indian Hindu Religious Leader)

We conquer – not in any brilliant fashion – we conquer by continuing.
—George Matheson (Scottish Theologian)

The covetous man is always poor.
—Claudian (Roman Poet)

Love people and use things. Don’t use people and love things.
—Joseph Simmons

Strange how a single conversation can change you. Or maybe it only seems that way in retrospect. A year passes and you know you feel differently, but you’re not sure what or why or how, so your mind casts back for something that might give that difference shape: a word, a glance, a touch.
—Barack Obama (American Head of State)

Success is achieved by development of our strengths, not by elimination of our weakness.
—Marilyn vos Savant (American Columnist)

The real differences around the world today are not between Jews and Arabs; Protestants and Catholics; Muslims, Croats, and Serbs. The real differences are between those who embrace peace and those who would destroy it; between those who look to the future and those who cling to the past; between those who open their arms and those who are determined to clench their fists.
—Bill Clinton (American Head of State)

We begin to die as soon as we are born, and the end is linked to the beginning.
—Marcus Manilius (Roman Poet)

Love the moment and the energy of the moment will spread beyond all boundaries.
—Corita Kent (American Artist)

I wish I could stand on a busy corner, hat in hand, and beg people to throw me all their wasted hours.
—Bernard Berenson (Russian-born American Art Historian)

One is taught by experience to put a premium on those few people who can appreciate you for what you are.
—Gail Godwin (American Novelist)

The test of good manners is to be able to put up pleasantly with bad ones.
—Wendell Willkie (American Politician)

A gentleman is one who is too brave to lie, too generous to cheat, and who takes his share of the world and lets other people have theirs.
—Paul G. Hoffman (American Businessperson)

Happiness is a matter of one’s most ordinary and everyday mode of consciousness being busy and lively and unconcerned with self.
—Iris Murdoch (English Novelist)

You don’t develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity.
—Barbara De Angelis (American Lecturer)

My formula for living is quite simple. I get up in the morning and I go to bed at night. In between, I occupy myself as best I can.
—Cary Grant (British-born American Actor)

Be brave enough to live creatively. The creative is the place where no one else has ever been. You have to leave the city of your comfort and go into the wilderness of your intuition. You can’t get there by bus, only by hard work, risking, and by not quite knowing what you’re doing. What you’ll discover will be wonderful: yourself.
—Alan Alda (American Actor)

Common sense is strengthened by joy.
—Nachman of Breslov (Ukrainian Jewish Religions Leader)

Nothing contributes so much to tranquilizing the mind as a steady purpose-a point on which the soul may fix its intellectual eye.
—Mary Shelley (English Novelist)

A word of kindness is seldom spoken in vain, while witty sayings are as easily lost as the pearls slipping from a broken string.
—George D. Prentice (American Journalist)

There are fathers who do not love their children, but there is no grandfather who does not adore his grandson.
—Victor Hugo (French Novelist)

We’ll do all right if we can capitalize on our mistakes.
—Mickey Rivers (American Sportsperson)

The biggest problem in the world could have been solved when it was small.
—Witter Bynner (American Poet)

When you finally go back to your old hometown, you find it wasn’t the old home you missed but your childhood.
—Sam Ewing (American Sportsperson)

Every failure made me more confident. Because I wanted even more to achieve as revenge. To show that I could.
—Roman Polanski (French Film Director)

If there is anything that can be called genius, it consists chiefly in the ability to give that attention to a subject which keeps it steadily in the mind, till we have surveyed it accurately on all sides.
—Thomas Reid (Scottish Philosopher)

If one only wished to be happy, this could be easily accomplished; but we wish to be happier than other people, and this is always difficult, for we believe others to be happier than they are.
—Charles de Secondat, baron de Montesquieu

Laughter gives us distance. It allows us to step back from an event, deal with it and then move on.
—Bob Newhart (American Comedian)

It happens a little unluckily that the persons who have the most infinite contempt of money are the same that have the strongest appetite for the pleasures it procures.
—William Shenstone (English Poet)

The purpose of life is to discover your gift. The meaning of life is to give your gift away.
—David Viscott (American Psychiatrist)

Research is to see what everybody else has seen, and to think what nobody else has thought.
—Albert Szent-Gyorgyi

Establish specific objectives, and move steadily toward them. A rudder won’t control a drifting boat; it must be underway. Similarly, you need to be moving forward to gain control of your life.
—Richard G. Scott (American Mormon Religious Leader)

Knowledge is a sacred cow, and my problem will be how we can milk her while keeping clear of her horns.
—Albert Szent-Gyorgyi

The road to happiness lies in two simple principles: find what it is that interests you and that you can do well, and when you find it, put your whole soul into it—every bit of energy and ambition and natural ability you have.
—John D. Rockefeller III (American Philanthropist)

Happiness doesn’t depend on what we have, but it does depend on how we feel towards what we have. We can be happy with little and miserable with much.
—William D. Hoard (American Elected Rep)

The trouble with experience is that by the time you have it you are too old to take advantage of it.
—Jimmy Connors (American Sportsperson)

Life’s under no obligation to give us what we expect.
—Margaret Mitchell (American Author)

Nothing is so common-place as to wish to be remarkable. Fame usually comes to those who are thinking about something else, – very rarely to those who say to themselves, “Go to, now, let us be a celebrated individual!”
—Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr. (American Physician)

It has been well said that no man ever sank under the burden of the day. It is when to-morrow’s burden is added to the burden of to-day that the weight is more than a man can bear.
—George MacDonald (Scottish Christian Author)

Some individuals have developed such strong internal standards that they no longer need the opinion of others to judge whether they have performed a task well or not. The ability to give objective feedback to oneself is in fact the mark of the expert.
—Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

Persons with weight of character carry, like planets, their atmospheres along with them in their orbits.
—Thomas Hardy (English Novelist, Poet)

Three things in human life are important: The first is to be kind. The second is to be kind. And the third is to be kind.
—Henry James (American-born British Novelist)

Our own heart, and not other men’s opinion, forms our true honor.
—Samuel Taylor Coleridge (English Poet)

There is a genius in every man and woman, waiting to be brought forth.
—Wallace Wattles (American New Thought Author)

What we do best or most perfectly is what we have most thoroughly learned by the longest practice, and at length it falls from us without our notice, as a leaf from a tree.
—Henry David Thoreau (American Philosopher)

Putting off an easy thing makes it hard. Putting off a hard thing makes it impossible.
—George C. Lorimer (American Baptist Clergyman)

I believe in work, hard work, and long hours of work. Men do not breakdown from overwork, but from worry and dissipation.
—Charles Evans Hughes (American Elected Rep)

Truth is the safest lie.
—Yiddish Proverb

The root of all difficulty and conflict lies in the mind; therefore, the solution to all difficulty and conflict lies in changing the mind.
—Kusan Sunim (Korean Buddhist Priest)

After all, our worst misfortunes never happen, and most miseries lie in anticipation.
—Honore de Balzac (French Novelist)

To weep is to make less the depth of grief.
—William Shakespeare (British Playwright)

From the earliest times the old have rubbed it into the young that they are wiser than they, and before the young had discovered what nonsense this was they were old too, and it profited them to carry on the imposture.
—W. Somerset Maugham (French Playwright)

In the same degree that we overrate ourselves, we shall underrate others; for injustice allowed at home is not likely to be correct abroad.
—Washington Allston (American Poet)

Calm self-confidence is as far from conceit as the desire to earn a decent living is remote from greed.
—Channing Pollock

Arrogance is a killer, and wearing ambition on one’s sleeve can have the same effect. There is a fine line between arrogance and self-confidence. Legitimate self-confidence is a winner. The true test of self-confidence is the courage to be open—to welcome change and new ideas regardless of their source. Self-confident people aren’t afraid to have their views challenged. They relish the intellectual combat that enriches ideas.
—Jack Welch (American Businessperson)

The bottom line is that if you become a master at handling problems and overcoming obstacles, what can stop you from success? The answer is nothing! And if nothing can stop you, you become unstoppable!
—T. Harv Eker (American Motivational Speaker)

The most intolerable pain is produced by prolonging the keenest pleasure.
—George Bernard Shaw (Irish Playwright)

I remember hearing in a talk that the more we express our gratitude to God for our blessings, the more he will bring to our mind other blessings. The more we are aware of to be grateful for, the happier we become.
—Ezra Taft Benson (American Mormon Religious Leader)

There is only one time that is important—NOW! It is the most important time because it is the only time that we have any power.
—Leo Tolstoy (Russian Novelist)