“Don’t fight the wave,” they say, is the surfer’s first lesson.
There’s wisdom in that—an invitation to embrace life’s unfolding, rather than battling its currents.
Life, too, rarely adheres to our scripts. Perhaps the struggle isn’t against the currents, but in learning to navigate them. When we cease resistance and begin to work with life’s flow, a hidden resilience surfaces.
Idea for Impact: Somewhere between control and surrender, we find growth—the kind that carries us forward, steady and resilient.
Regret is a backward-looking emotion. It’s an evaluation of past choices—regret arises from the discrepancy between what was and what could have been. Letting go of it is tough because it’s tangled with
The critical mind 
There’s a purported Zen parable that goes like this: A seasoned thief brings his son to a wealthy man’s house in the dead of night. They sneak inside, and the father carefully guides the son through the process—finding valuables, avoiding noise, and staying hidden. At one point, while the son is inside a room, the father suddenly slams the door shut and locks him in, then loudly raises the alarm before disappearing into the shadows.
Luck isn’t merely chance—it’s about