There’s a Time for Everything

You don’t have to figure everything out today. You don’t have to deal with life’s trials and tribulations by trying to take over and get a grip overnight. And you don’t have to tackle everything at once. You just have to show up and try. Life will catch up to you.

Just focus on the most immediate thing in front of you. Make the most of today—and deal with tomorrow, next week, or next year when it gets here. The Buddhist teacher Pema Chödrön writes in When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times (1996,)

As human beings, not only do we seek resolution, but we also feel that we deserve resolution. However, not only do we not deserve resolution, we suffer from resolution. We don’t deserve resolution; we deserve something better than that. We deserve our birthright, which is the middle way, an open state of mind that can relax with paradox and ambiguity.

Let go of what’s gone, appreciate what remains, and look forward to what’s coming. Just trust that you’ll figure out the rest along the way. You’ll adapt to circumstances without requiring all circumstances to be adapted to your wishes.

Idea for Impact: Live a better life, day to day, without wishing to solve life’s problems all at once. Make your actions deliberate. Enjoy what’s beautiful and believe in goodness.