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Book Summary of Viktor Frankl’s ‘Man’s Search for Meaning’

May 31, 2013 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Man's Search for Meaning » Austrian psychiatrist Viktor Frankl In “Man’s Search for Meaning,” Austrian psychiatrist Viktor Frankl makes the case that the primary motivation in one’s life is neither pleasure (as proposed by Sigmund Freud) nor power (as proposed by Alfred Adler), but meaning and purpose.

Viktor Frankl is the pioneer of “logotherapy,” a psychotherapy system that carries out an existential examination of a person and consequently helps him/her discover purpose and meaning in his/her life.

Principal ideas from “Man’s Search for Meaning”:

  • Based on his experience as an inmate at many Nazi concentration camps during the Second World War, Viktor Frankl observed that those who survived the longest in the Nazi concentration camps were not those who were physically strong, but were those who maintained a sense of control over their environment by finding meaning in their existence and their torments.
  • Even in the toughest of circumstances, life can be given a meaning, and so too can suffering. A person can learn how to cope with suffering and move ahead with a renewed sense of purpose and meaning.
  • Meaning in life can be discovered by taking responsibility and through “right conduct” by,
    • Contributing meaningfully to the world through self-expression and resourcefulness,
    • Experiencing the world by connecting meaningfully with others and with our environment, and
    • Probing our attitudes and changing our approach meaningfully when we face situations that we have little control over.

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Filed Under: Leadership Reading, Sharpening Your Skills Tagged With: Books for Impact, Motivation

Inspirational Quotations #477

May 26, 2013 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Leadership is the art of accomplishing more than the science of management says is possible.
—Colin Powell (American Military Leader)

As selfishness and complaint pervert and cloud the mind, so love with its joy clears and sharpens the vision.
—Helen Keller (American Author)

Only some work in which the greatest powers of the mind are displayed, in which the most thorough knowledge of human nature, the happiest delineation of its varieties, the liveliest effusions of wit and humour, are conveyed to the world in the best-chosen language.
—Jane Austen (English Novelist)

Our imagination is stretched to the utmost, not, as in fiction, to imagine things which are not really there, but just to comprehend those things which are there.
—Richard Feynman (American Physicist)

They say the world has become too complex for simple answers. They are wrong. There are no easy answers, but there are simple answers. We must have the courage to do what we know is morally right.
—Ronald Reagan (American Head of State)

Those who bring sunshine into the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves.
—J. M. Barrie (Scottish Novelist)

Remember, hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies.
—Stephen King (American Novelist)

Filed Under: Inspirational Quotations

51 Practical Lessons for a Lifetime

May 24, 2013 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Practical Lessons for a Lifetime

One of my coaching clients recently turned 51 and, upon my encouragement, prepared a list of lessons he’d learned in the “school of hard knocks.” With his permission, I present below a distillation of his wisdom.

  1. Measure twice, cut once
  2. Learn to see the extraordinary in the ordinary.
  3. Life is not about finding yourself, it’s about creating yourself.
  4. The best vengeance is living life well.
  5. Don’t smoke. Don’t abuse alcohol. Don’t do drugs.
  6. Love your country and fellowman.
  7. Don’t let misfortune steal your dreams.
  8. Things could always be worse.
  9. Don’t be afraid to fail. Keep in mind that mistakes are stepping stones to triumph.
  10. Don’t worry. Everything eventually works out.
  11. Don’t be resentful. Don’t take anything personally.
  12. You can always get more money, but you can’t get more time.
  13. Ask not for an easy life. Ask for the vigor to endure a difficult one and persevere.
  14. If you risk nothing, you risk even more.
  15. Never underestimate yourself or take your abilities too lightly.
  16. Don’t take things that aren’t yours.
  17. Never say die. Never say never.
  18. Don’t worry about what people think, they don’t do it very often.
  19. Live within your means.
  20. Give people the benefit of doubt.
  21. Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth
  22. Clean up your own mess.
  23. Develop a healthy cynicism.
  24. If everyone says you’re out of your mind, you just might be onto something.
  25. If you have extra, give.
  26. With sorrow comes the opportunity for growth.
  27. Don’t let time pass. Grab hold of it and make your mark.
  28. Don’t overestimate or overstate your ability to influence.
  29. There’s nothing wrong with being mediocre in something as long as you become an expert at something else.
  30. If you don’t have anything nice to say about someone, don’t say it at all.
  31. You are not that good, they are not that bad.
  32. Hold your head high and look the world straight in the eye.
  33. Be as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are of your own.
  34. Believe in yourself
  35. Have a good time. All of the time.
  36. Believe that everybody has the power to change the world.
  37. Do something that they don’t expect you to do.
  38. Friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on.
  39. Don’t be reckless with other people’s emotions.
  40. Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults.
  41. Speak the truth in love.
  42. Learn something new every day.
  43. Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. Find it.
  44. Never underrate the power of accessibility.
  45. Acknowledge those who have helped you.
  46. Sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind.
  47. Pardon your enemies, don’t forget their names.
  48. Just start. Just take that first step and get started.
  49. Don’t expect of others what you don’t demand of yourself
  50. Don’t expect anyone else to support you.
  51. Friends may come and go, but enemies accumulate.

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Filed Under: Sharpening Your Skills Tagged With: Getting Ahead, Wisdom

Inspirational Quotations #476

May 19, 2013 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

One must be something, in order to do something.
—Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (German Poet)

We have, in fact, two kinds of morality side by side; one which we preach but do not practice and another which we practice but seldom preach.
—Bertrand A. Russell (British Philosopher)

Think of the poorest person you have ever seen and ask if your next act will be of any use to him.
—Mohandas K. Gandhi (Indian Hindu Political leader)

Do not be too moral. You may cheat yourself out of much life. So aim above morality. Be not simply good; be good for something.
—Henry David Thoreau (American Philosopher)

Happiness is the only sanction of life; where happiness fails, existence remains a mad and lamentable experiment.
—George Santayana (Spanish Philosopher)

Cultivate only the habits that you are willing should master you.
—Elbert Hubbard (American Writer)

A radical is a man with both feet firmly planted—in the air. A conservative is a man with two perfectly good legs who, however, has never learned to walk forward. A reactionary is a somnambulist walking backwards. A liberal is a man who uses his legs and his hands at the behest—at the command—of his head.
—Franklin D. Roosevelt (American Head of State)

It all comes down to this: if your subconscious “financial blueprint” is not “set’ for success, nothing you learn, nothing you know, and nothing you do will make much of a difference.
—T. Harv Eker (American Motivational Speaker)

They can conquer who believe they can. He has not learned the first lesson in life who does not every day surmount a fear.
—Virgil (Roman Poet)

Filed Under: Inspirational Quotations

The only thing that matters: The Relevant Results

May 15, 2013 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Consider the following parable.

In New York City, a taxi driver and a priest die on the same day and knock on Heaven’s door.

At the pearly gates, St. Peter receives them and shows the taxi driver and priest around. The taxi driver’s eternal home is a lavish new castle equipped with butlers and fancy stuff. The priest’s new home is a meager hut of a dwelling with neither electricity nor water.

The priest complains to St. Peter: “It’s I, not him, who dedicated my life to faith. I sacrificed much in life, worked hard, and delivered thousands of sermons to the faithful in New York. All I get is a mere hut when this taxi driver gets a castle?” St. Peter responds: “Yes, but when you did your work—when you preached—people slept. When the taxi driver worked—when he drove people around New York, people prayed hard.”

Idea for Impact: Your strategies, vision and mission statements, business plans, purposes, determination, ambitions, intents, ideas, resolutions, goals, hard work, sleepless nights—none of these matter if you don’t deliver the results that are relevant to your boss, your customers, and your stakeholders.

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Filed Under: Leading Teams, Sharpening Your Skills Tagged With: Discipline, Getting Things Done, Parables

Inspirational Quotations #475

May 12, 2013 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

The thirst after happiness is never extinguished in the heart of a man.
—Jean-Jacques Rousseau (Swiss Philosopher)

Some men are born to own, and can animate all their possessions. Others cannot: their owning is not graceful; seems to be a compromise of their character: they seem to steal their own dividends.
—Ralph Waldo Emerson (American Philosopher)

The whole world yearns after freedom, yet each creature is in love with his chains; this is the first paradox and inextricable knot of our nature.
—Sri Aurobindo (Indian Yogi, Nationalist)

Avoid this dangerous mix of personal (grasping), spiritual and selfless love. Most of the time it ends in frustration.
—Hans Taeger

We are never so ridiculous from the habits we have as from those that we affect to have.
—Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Kindness arises by standing apart from oneself and recognizing all beings as companions on the arduous travel towards highest perfection.
—Hans Taeger

Let us leave it to the reviewers to abuse such effusions of fancy at their leisure, and over every new novel to talk in threadbare strains of the trash with which the press now groans. Let us not desert one another; we are an injured body.
—Jane Austen (English Novelist)

The first essential, of course, is to know what you want.
—Robert Collier (American Self-Help Author)

Are you more likely to feel regret because of an action you take or because of inaction (something you do *not* do)?
—Ben Casnocha (American Entrepreneur, Investor)

Filed Under: Inspirational Quotations

Book Summary of Nassim Taleb’s ‘Fooled by Randomness’

May 6, 2013 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

'Fooled by Randomness: The Hidden Role of Chance in Life and in the Markets' by Nassim Nicholas Taleb (ISBN 1400067936) In “Fooled by Randomness: The Hidden Role of Chance in Life and in the Markets,” Lebanese American essayist Nassim Nicholas Taleb discusses cognitive biases and irrationalities that drive human behavior and decision-making.

Principal ideas:

  • Luck, chance, and randomness play a larger role in the happenings of the world than most people acknowledge.
  • People tend to justify random outcomes as non-random and rationalize chance outcomes as results of deliberate actions.
  • Correlation does not translate to causation.
  • People tend to assume patterns in their analysis even when such patterns do not exist.
  • Variations in performance and ability can cause disproportionate rewards, difficulties, punishments, or returns.

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Inspirational Quotations #474

May 5, 2013 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Perhaps travel cannot prevent bigotry, but by demonstrating that all peoples cry, laugh, eat, worry, and die, it can introduce the idea that if we try and understand each other, we may even become friends.
—Maya Angelou (American Poet)

Most people live, whether physically, intellectually or morally, in a very restricted circle of their potential being. They make use of a very small portion of their possible consciousness, and of their soul’s resources in general, much like a man who, out of his whole bodily organism, should get into a habit of using and moving only his little finger. Great emergencies and crises show us how much greater our vital resources are than we had supposed.
—William James (American Philosopher)

You only find out who is swimming naked when the tide goes out.
—Warren Buffett (American Investor)

Your most unhappy customers are your greatest source of learning.
—Bill Gates (American Businessperson)

A good book is the precious lifeblood of a master spirit, embalmed and treasured up on purpose to a life beyond life.
—John Milton (English Poet)

I don’t make jokes. I just watch the government and report the facts.
—Will Rogers (American Actor)

The best teacher is the one who suggests rather than dogmatizes, and inspires his listener with the wish to teach himself.
—Edward Bulwer-Lytton, 1st Baron Lytton (English Poet)

People don’t understand the sort of fight it takes to record what you want, to record the way you want to record it.
—Billie Holiday

Show me a hero and I will write you a tragedy.
—F. Scott Fitzgerald (American Novelist)

Filed Under: Inspirational Quotations

The World’s Shortest Course on Time Management

May 1, 2013 By Nagesh Belludi 1 Comment

There are countless things you can do.

There are numerous things you want to do.

There are several things others expect you to do.

There are many things you think you are supposed to do.

However, there are only a few things that you must do. Focus on those and avoid the rest.

In depth: Take my three-part course on time management—time logging, time analysis, and time budgeting. See also my 10-minute “Dash” technique to overcome procrastination.

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