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Are You Ready for a Promotion?

September 29, 2009 By Nagesh Belludi 1 Comment

Promotions Can be Stressful

Last year, researchers at the University of Warwick found that the mental health of managers typically deteriorates after a job promotion.  Part of this anxiety is attributable to,

  1. the loss of the security of a familiar role and the established relationships around the role,
  2. perceived cognitive inadequacies concerning demands of the new position, and,
  3. the uncertainty of transition and the innate human resistance to change.

The greater part of this anxiety is a common career mistake. Often, professionals take up new responsibilities for which they are not entirely prepared. Even when management judged them as qualified for the new role, without thinking through a new role before accepting the promotion, these professionals unintentionally position themselves for stressful transitions, bitterness, or eventual failure.

When Is It Time to Move On?

Do not assume that you are ready for a promotion just because you possess the right academic background, you look the part, you have the right contacts within the company, or, you have impressed your management with your capability to develop a few good ideas and articulate them well.

Here are a few questions to reflect on and assess your chance of a successful promotion or a horizontal transition.

  • Are you enthusiastic about taking on a new role? Does the new role fit into your medium- and long-term career plans?
  • Have you been performing your present duties well enough to justify a promotion?
  • Do you have a successor in mind for your current role? Have you made yourself replaceable? Are you willing to entrust your current responsibilities to a successor without a significant interruption in pace of work?
  • Are you qualified or experienced enough to do no less than, say, 40% of the new role reasonably well?
  • Have you demonstrated eagerness to gain knowledge of the new responsibilities?
  • Are you familiar with the responsibilities, autonomy, challenges, opportunities, and deliverables of the new role? Do you know how to get things done in the new role? Do you know where to get help?
  • Are you proficient with the communication, networking and interpersonal skills needed to make it in the new role? Will you get along with your peers, subordinates, and management at the new role?
  • Are you at ease with the demands on the new role: time, travel, pressures, and challenges? Can your family (or other aspects of your personal life) support this transition?
  • Can you swallow your pride if you are rejected for the new role? Are you ready to seek honest feedback about how management values you, listen, and make yourself more promotable in the future?

The more questions you answer with a “Yes” to, the better your chances for a successful promotion. Reflect on the questions you answer with a “No” to. Create a growth plan, improve your professional profile, and, ask for feedback from management on what you can do deserve a promotion.

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Filed Under: Career Development, Sharpening Your Skills Tagged With: Career Planning, Leadership Lessons, Managing the Boss, Personal Growth

Inspirational Quotations #291

September 27, 2009 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

If you have made mistakes, even serious ones,
there is always another chance for you. What we call failure is
not the falling down, but the staying down.
— Mary Pickford

Health is the greatest possession.
Contentment is the greatest treasure.
Confidence is the greatest friend.
Non-being is the greatest joy.
— The Dhammapada

Hatred is an affair of the heart;
contempt that of the head.
— Arthur Schopenhauer

It’s kind of fun to do the impossible.
— Walt Disney

If I keep a green bough in my heart, the singing bird will come.
— Chinese Proverb

Great doubts deep wisdom… Small doubts little wisdom.
— Chinese Proverb

One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all
of us tend to put off living.
We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon-
instead of enjoying the roses blooming outside our windows today.
— Dale Carnegie

You can get everything in life you want if
you will just help enough other people get what they want.
— Zig Ziglar

There was never a night or a problem that could defeat sunrise or hope.
— Bern Williams

Five great enemies to peace inhabit with us:
vice, avarice, ambition, envy, anger, and pride.
If those enemies were to be banished,
we should infallibly enjoy perpetual peace.
— Petrarch

Filed Under: Inspirational Quotations

Inspirational Quotations #290

September 20, 2009 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Freedom is hammered out on the anvil of discussion, dissent, and debate.
—Hubert Humphrey (American Head of State)

Wisdom is oft times nearer when we stoop than when we soar.
—William Wordsworth (English Poet)

The estimate and valor of a man consists in the heart and in the will; there his true honor lies. Valor is stability, not of arms and legs, but of courage and the soul; it does not lie in the valor of our horse, nor of our arms, but in ourselves. He that falls obstinate in his courage, if his legs fail him, fights upon his knees.
—Michel de Montaigne (French Philosopher)

Why are the words good-bye, I’m sorry, and I love you so easy to pronounce but so hard to say?
—Unknown

Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together.
—Woodrow Wilson (American Head of State)

Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle. The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours.
—Ayn Rand (Russian-born American Novelist)

The soul has this proof of its divinity: that divine things delight in it.
—Seneca the Younger (Lucius Annaeus Seneca) (Roman Philosopher)

The experiences of camp life show that a man does have a choice of action. There were enough examples, often of a heroic nature, which proved that apathy could be overcome, irritability suppressed. Man can preserve a vestige of spiritual freedom, of independence of mind, even in such terrible conditions of psychic and physical stress. We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken away from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s way. The way in which a man accepts his fate and all the suffering it entails, the way in which he takes up his cross, gives him ample opportunity—even in the most difficult circumstances—to add a deeper meaning to life.
—Viktor Frankl (Austrian Physician)

Filed Under: Inspirational Quotations

Inspirational Quotations #289

September 13, 2009 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

Leaders establish the vision for the future and set the strategy for getting there; they cause change. They motivate and inspire others to go in the right direction and they, along with everyone else, sacrifice to get there.
—John Kotter (American Academic)

Always be able to look back and say: “At least I did not lead no humdrum life.”
—Movie: Forrest Gump

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
—Leo Buscaglia (American Motivational Speaker)

That government is best which governs least.
—Henry David Thoreau (American Philosopher)

Everybody wants to be somebody; nobody wants to grow.
—Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (German Poet)

Striving for success without hard work is like trying to harvest where you haven’t planted.
—David Bly

Goodness is the only investment that never fails.
—Henry David Thoreau (American Philosopher)

Our fundamental problems are our ignorance and ego-grasping. We grasp at our identity as being our personality, memories, opinions, judgments, hopes, fears, chattering away—all revolving around this me me me me.
—Jetsunma Tenzin Palmo (British Buddhist Teacher, Nun)

As long as we believe ourselves to be even the least different from God, fear remains with us; but when we know ourselves to be the One, fear goes; of what can we be afraid?
—Swami Vivekananda (Indian Hindu Mystic)

The nearest way to glory is to strive to be what you wish to be thought to be.
—Socrates (Anceient Greek Philosopher)

I have always admired the ability to bite off more than one can chew and then chew it.
—William C. deMille (American Screenwriter)

Filed Under: Inspirational Quotations

Measuring Leadership Performance in Context

September 9, 2009 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

In this article from Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania, US presidential historian Richard Norton Smith offers ten guidelines to evaluate presidents. These guidelines apply to assessing leadership performance as well.

History’s take on presidential performance is subject to change. Presidents can only be understood within the context, conventions and limitations of their time. Each generation needs to revisit its assumptions in light of new evidence, the performance of succeeding presidents and the perspective that comes with time.

Frequently, leadership assessments disregard the fact that leadership is contextual. The common belief that Mahatma Gandhi was opposed to modernity and technology ignores Gandhi’s proposal for rural development through means such as homespun cloth, cottage industry and self-sufficiency in the just-independent India. Six decades hence, this idea now seems obviously bizarre.

Furthermore, ideas, competencies, and actions that are relevant in one context can be inhibiting in others. Comparisons of General Electric’s CEO Jeffrey Immelt to his predecessor, the legendary Jack Welch, in terms of shareholder return ignore the fact that Jack Welch’s tenure intersected with the prosperous Regan- and Clinton-presidencies and Jeffrey Immelt has faced two of the worst slowdowns in modern history.

Some of the key intellectual traits demanded of a leader—risk-taking, vision and execution, organizational development, etc.—may not see fruition until long after the leader’s tenure. Hence, a broad, sincere assessment of a leader’s performance can happen only years after his tenure.

Filed Under: Leadership

Bereavement and Death

September 7, 2009 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

The Dharma Mirror blog features Trang Tran’s touching article about the loss of his family pet dog. Trang reflects on the concept of impermanence and the virtue of compassion.

Paradoxically, [my pet dog’s] death brought to life the impermanence of our existence and how the greatest and truest love that you could ever give to anybody is in their darkest moment—the moment when they need you the most. Whether it’s your children, parents, or even a dog that you love and cherish with all your heart, you carry that love and compassion with you into your next life.

I hope that in the last moments of my life, I, too, will be surrounded by loved ones who will brush my thinning, white hair, bring in some boxes of chocolate, retell funny, familiar stories, and not part with me until I take my last breath.

Impermanence

When you were born you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life in such a manner than when you die, the world cried and you rejoice.
* Kabir, Indian Mystic

The loss of loved ones often leads us to contemplate death—to become conscious of the fact that life is fleeting and we shall all die someday. Our education, relationships, career, possessions, belongings—none of these are stable or permanent. Reflecting on the briefness of our lives can be a powerful motivating force to help think about the purpose of life and clarify our values and priorities.

Have you reflected on the impact of your life? Have you touched others? What will be your legacy? How will you make a difference in the lives of others?

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Filed Under: Living the Good Life Tagged With: Grief, Mortality, Relationships

Inspirational Quotations #288

September 6, 2009 By Nagesh Belludi Leave a Comment

People often say motivation doesn’t last. Neither does bathing—that’s why we recommend it daily.
—Zig Ziglar (American Author)

Success often comes to those who have the aptitude to see way down the road.
—J. Laing Burns, Jr.

And so our mothers and grandmothers have, more often than not anonymously, handed on the creative spark, the seed of the flower they themselves never hoped to see – or like a sealed letter they could not plainly read.
—Alice Walker

Stay hungry. Stay foolish.
—Stewart Brand (American Writer)

Courage is the art of being the only one who knows you’re scared to death.
—Earl Wilson

Good fortune follows honesty.|Fame follows sacrifice.|Education follows practice.|Intelligence follows hard work.
—Subhashita Manjari

Friends come and go, but enemies accumulate
—Indian Proverb

If you want your children to improve, let them overhear the nice things you say about them to others.
—Haim Ginott

The delight we inspire in others, has this enchanting peculiarity. That, unlike any other reflection, returns to us more radiant than ever.
—Victor Hugo (French Novelist)

Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.
—Steve Jobs (American Entrepreneur)

There’s no understanding the future without the present, and no understanding where we are now without a glance, a least, to where we have been.
—Joyce Maynard

Jealousy is an inner consciousness of one’s own inferiority. it is a mental cancer.
—B. C. Forbes (Scottish-born American Journalist)

Filed Under: Inspirational Quotations

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